WHAT DOES A MAN WANT ?
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WHAT DOES A MAN WANT ? First of all a man is seeking a
love-interest. This may surprise many
women but men like to love and they
like being loved in return. The
problem is that many women come across
as impassioned and cold. It is not
easy to find a loving woman and it is
very noticeable how many men try and
hang on when they think they have
found their Miss Right.
Men are seeking a woman who is
attractive to them. Women may despair
that men can be so shallow and that
looks could matter so much but be
careful. Men aren't necessarily
looking for a catwalk model and many
men don't like women who weigh 80lbs.
But men do want a woman who takes
pride in their appearance (though not
excessively). Men are proud of having
a girlfriend who looks good and I
don't believe any man who says
otherwise.
Men are looking for a trustworthy
girl, someone they can have faith in
and someone who will be there for
them. This may sound like an odd thing
to say, but the fact is, some women
are not trustworthy and many are not
faithful either. So many in fact that
men are increasingly wary. That kiss
at a Christmas party may not count, or
the flirtatious behavior with the
gorgeous barman and in fact its all
great fun and part of a woman's
character. But reverse the situation
and as a woman, you hate him doing the
same. A man can never forgive a woman
being unfaithful and so he is looking
for someone who he really does trust.
Men want to make a home eventually and
are looking for a woman who will be a
willing sharer in home life.
Men are seeking women who are feminine
gentle and kind because deep down the
qualities that make a woman a great
mother are an attraction in
themselves.
Men want women with a great sense of
humor. Women often come across as
uptight or too bothered by too many
small details. You will sometimes hear
mention of a girl who is 'one of the
boys'. What this means is that she is
able to fit in with their humor and is
sociable and fun to be with. Such
women are extremely attractive to many
men. Men want to have a good time and
relax when not working and so their
ideal partners are women who are able
to do the same.
Men are looking for women who retain
their femininity and and are caring
and kind. In recent years, aping men
may be a female fashion statement, but
it doesn't make them attractive.
Whilst every woman in the world burps
and farts and has the right to drink
pints of beer, it doesn't necessarily
attract them to the opposite sex.
Women can get angry and say well men
will just have to get used to it, but
the issue is that they don't. They can
just choose not to go for women who
act in the same way as their drinking
buddies.
Men want someone who is supportive.
Many women are quick to criticize men
in their behavior, career and set
about trying to alter them and mold
them. This is a crucial mistake. Men
can be manipulated yes, but they see
their partnerships as support systems.
The best relationships work both ways
in terms of support. Where a woman is
not able or willing to give that
support and is too quick to criticize
then she may lose her man.
Men don't like angry women who shout.
They want a woman who can debate and
converse and is able to discuss.
Communication is king. A fiery
passionate temperament may have made
you interesting and challenging on day
one. But by day 500 it holds no glory
whatsoever.
Men love a challenging woman, someone
who keeps them on their toes. Men are
generally lazy in relationships once
they feel they're in secure territory.
When a man is challenged so he does
something about it. If you want to
keep your man interested, keep him
challenged.
Men are generally more reserved about
sex than women. This is my experience
is a fact. Men know what they like in
bed and tend to stick to it. The
adventurous sexual appetite in most
men isn't there even if they are
convinced it is. Men in reality are
quite conservative. Sexually
adventurous has nothing to do with
having lots of partners and more to do
with the things they will try with the
same partner. In most test cases I
have conducted, it is the man who
looks for a quiet time in the bedroom
and the woman who ultimately becomes
bored.
Men want a woman who will commit to
them. Though increasingly this is hard
to find, it doesn't take away the
wish. Men want a girlfriend who they
can share with and trust and be open
with. Commitment is not a one way
street and therefore men are
struggling to find the levels of
commitment they found previously. But
the need is still there. Men don't
want to be alone.
These paragraphs can easily fire a
great debate and I may be accused of
being completely wrong but that is the
beauty of opinions. We all have them.
The fact is, a modern man is seeking a
reliable, sexy, single girl with whom
he can have a long term relationship
with. He wants to have fun, share his
life and ultimately settle down. There
are a few long term bachelors but not
that many. The problem guys have is
that the world has changed. They don't
necessarily want to have children and
settle down straight away, but it will
come. They do seek self-respect even
if they are not the primary
breadwinner and they seek respect from
their partner.