In times of Pushkin's men proved their love for women, causing the opponent to a duel, devoted lover of the poem, at the feet of the woman were thrown flowers, jewels and expensive furs. Today, little has changed, we also need proof of love and devotion, except for the lady of the heart is, thank God, no one shoots.

Unfortunately, centuries later, we have not learned to appreciate that feeling and take it for granted, without requiring any evidence. We still do not understand that love has no units of measure, it is not measured in money, gifts and spoken word. If you close a loving person, he just need to believe and not to make a test to see how strong his feelings.

Perhaps there would be fewer checks if each of us is our love once, not stuffing yourself bumps. But, alas, burning and giving up with every new relationship, we are sowing doubt in his heart. As a result, meeting the man who really sincere with us, for some reason we do not take it seriously. We think that this is another mistake. Can you blame us? And whether you want to look for some proof of love? Alas, these days many do not associate with the words "I love you," concepts such as family, marriage, fidelity. It's logical, if a person likes, he wants to be with loved ones, the rest of his life, a family and raise children. Unfortunately, many do not know the difference between the words "I love you" and "I want you." That's why these cherished three words that every one of us wants to hear became so jammed up holes and corny.

And that's why, when we recognize someone in love, we will certainly try to verify that person's sincerity. And, despite what he expects from us the same words in response, we tend not to be recognized in this light feeling, why then to look for an idiot? What if he is cheating, and nothing like we have not experienced? We want to swap their recognition on the sincere love and nothing else. But then it turns out we do not trust the man, whom we love? And is it possible to build love, losing confidence?

There are people who believe that love is different in quality. Quality of love is measured by travel abroad, going to expensive restaurants, gifts, etc. Personally, I think that there is no correlation between the value of the gift and power of feelings. I think the more important concern for human rights and tenderness he shows to you, rather than going to the expensive restaurant. Most worryingly, many women put their men in the sample of wealthy husbands or lovers, her friends, completely unaware that they are insulted by this dear person.

There is no dispute that the gifts to get nice, but unless he has a value of a gift when it is made from the heart? What touches you is more like an expensive restaurant, or the fact that your man stayed all night at the stove to cook you dinner by candlelight? To be honest of the two fans, most women choose a more affluent, and that's not the prudence or obsession for material things, just making sure that men are more able to make surprises and to provide proper courtesies.

How often do we tell a man: I do not believe that you love me, show, show, led to believe. We as a whimsical princess waiting for new exploits of their beloved. In part, this behavior has invested in us by nature - to continue the race, we try to choose the most worthy challenger. And yet, requiring proof, look do not overdo it, because there will always be less demanding woman takes a man for who he is, without pretension.

The happiest couples - those who just live for each other, while not proving anything to anyone. They do not consider the number and quality of donated gifts to each other, they do not compare your relationship with relations and friends of friends, they do not call each other up as an example of someone from your friends. They do not need to prove that, in fact, does not require proof. And you would not believe - they are happy!

Do not try to assess or evaluate her love for money, not love for something, and just like that. Believe in your loved one, believe in love, and most importantly listen to your heart, it will not let you down and will not disappoint. Love does not need to analyze, it is not subject to logic, it must receive and cherish, because true love is very little on Earth, and depends only on us, will continue to love their continued existence or not.