Yes, these words from us to hear for the first time is not easy. We willingly blabbed terrible military secrets. Why do men so hard to say "I love you"? Yes, because we have some other relationship to words. They mean more to us. In the sense that we say what is really thinking, not that we suddenly wanted to say at this point. And take responsibility for what I said. Anyway, try. Therefore, by the way, even during an argument we are more restrained in the use of abusive epithets. And if the man in the heat of battle called the woman a fool, you can be sure he really believes it fool. Even if later mumbles that he said it rashly. This is the white lie.

As it happens, and with the words "I love you." We believe that by telling them, burn the bridges behind them. Not everyone, of course, but a few. We pass the Rubicon. Throw a lot ... crosses a certain threshold beyond which freedom becomes less and commitment - more. In this case, it does not matter what we feel. Truly love, we think that we love, pursuing their own ignoble purposes, we want to, sorry ... It's little things. In some cases, a man can say "I love you" just to break the resistance of women. But if the words spoken - so all is not so simple. Hence, we must answer for them. This is roughly the same as saying "yes" before the altar. Before that were hihanki-hahanki after - no longer a laughing matter. I repeat, this scheme works, even if in fact the man does not feel any love. Important in themselves spoken words. A friend of mine proobschalsya with a girl two years, just because once in a fit of madness promised had never been cast. Contrition came after a couple of days. But the word was given. He kept it and it did not give up. She snapped him. And rightly so - she had promised nothing ...

In short, by his own words we take seriously. And naturally, they do not want to throw. Why us an extra responsibility? Because a declaration of love to wrest from us is complicated. On the other hand, if pulled, you can be sure - he will now apply to the relationship seriously. Such is the paradox that sometimes words describe our feelings ... But even if we said this one time (the most important and most difficult), to repeat them every day feel superfluous. Not necessarily because our feelings have changed. Just because it is said already everything. What is the same taldychit? And then all of a sudden you forget? .. What a reminder? Again, there are those among us individuals who are willing to say "I love you" Tom, Dick and Harry. What can I say? The family has its black sheep.