And we love to learn, and constraints are rarely deter, and she likes it, but "includes - not working." As in the famous joke: "Yes you bastard, he, you bastard! Yes No (sadly shaking his head) ... "Cowards we desperately. And cowards often. Why do men fear to get acquainted? " What we are afraid? Yes, everybody knows - to be rejected. And simply put, tell him to go away. This is where the self-assessment of our end! And what a man without self-esteem? So worthless loser. A burden to themselves and their loved ones. No mind, we are well aware that it is impossible to please everyone that a certain percentage of failures is inevitable that in fact it is not deadly. All know. Even then, that the reason for refusal is not necessarily our unattractiveness. Maybe the girl desperately in love with Bruce Willis and the other men for her - nothing. All this we understand. But step through the horror of failure can not always. And not everything.

If you only knew what flour is experiencing a timid man, looking at the cuteness! Oh! If you talk about this colorful and easy to understand, even the walls will cry. Hamlet with his torments rest. That's what you need to write a tragedy in verse. That's where the real "or not to be" ... So, he sits in front and throws quick glances, like ferrets. Fraction of a second accurately determine how to watch your feet when you stand, what is your growth, what gait ... even his voice can be roughly defined "by eye". Most experienced predict your behavior in the bed (here, however, is great opportunity to goof, but it does not bother anybody - still interesting to present). A minute later he even draw your psychological profile of every subtle signs. All this only on an intuitive level. And more often with gross errors. But it does not matter! He has all the nafantaziroval, speculation, pririsoval that do not need to - stroke.

And now begins to fear. Suddenly you do not even look at him? Simply through clenched teeth: "I do not get acquainted in transport. It's a nightmare! Yes, and something to say? Let me know? Trite. What time is it? Stupid. All the clever phrases that specifically harvested for such a case, somewhere to disappear. My head is now empty. And in the soul - of despair. Time is running out. Suddenly, you go to the next stop? Then just do not have time. He gets up and fit, and you get up and leave. Terrible situation! Then you looked at it approvingly. Encouraged, they say, come on, man, go! What happened to him? Yes, everything has become worse. "Damn, she's waiting, I go up to her. What should I do? Let me know? Corny ... And suddenly it seemed to me at all? Just like that looked? And if you do not imagine it? She agreed, and I'm sure ... thinks I'm an idiot. How come after you have recorded in the idiots? "Well, etc. it.p.

Scary! Scared that they will refuse, that's why men are afraid to get acquainted . It is terrible that deem jerk. Scared to get into an idiotic position ... It is easier to make, finally, the kind that do not really wanted. Just looked so ... Artist and seek out interesting people ... Who cares what? Sometimes, of course, women are a great help to us. I remember one day on the street saw the girl. Walked toward me. Was very nice. Such a cute that I could not resist and followed. As always in such moments, frantically swarmed in umishke trying to write something cheerful and original. Inspiration is not, so wag all hand and hoping for a sudden inspiration, catch up with her monstrous original: "Girl!" What will follow this "girl", I had no idea. Called and called ... He could really make an impression not very good. But it is! Just Lapushka. Stops and says with a smile:

"Well, how to get to the library, I can not help you.

They laughed, learned. Great! Sense of humor and kindness - that's all that a man should in the first seconds of acquaintance.

But this is not as often as desired. And even if the woman in general is not against dating, she behaved very passively. Understanding, education, stereotypes and all that. And in the end ... he needs to let and bustle. But we still think that he answer ...

Often, as in fact happens? And she was not against him, and he was already trembling with impatience, as the war-horse before the attack. And the courage, the approach that says something (perhaps not even foolish), but she is ... She pretends that she at least all that unpleasant. Some women in fact very much that the man showed perseverance, labored, sweat ... so they were waiting to see what it will show its assertiveness. And this chump shrugs and falls off. And he was hurt, and her. What can I say? .. Not always men ready, so the run, his insistence to show. And so something terrible, but then there's ... Not everyone is persuaded by a go. Yes, and stupor some attacks after the refusal. Automatically turns around and going, hearing "no." Even if it is pronounced as "yes." Where there really understand the subtleties of intonation! That is, there is already to you to decide: Want to flirt, be prepared for the fact that your desire will not understand or appreciate. And easily ...

 That can scare a man

What else can scare us? The easiest way - to avoid direct views. His eyes are like a cancer stalks hung, and you are carefully studying his favorite button. Such, we tend to not be viewed as a manifestation of modesty, and an unwillingness to communicate with us. Not looking - then I'm not interested. Most often, and sometimes, of course. But it happens that the eyes fall dolu just because of this very modest, which is known to decorate a girl ...

No less frightening and the opposite option, when a woman willingly enters the game of "who someone pereglyadit. Direct view of an unknown woman weak men's nerves can not stand. Completely unclear what's on her mind. Men perceive a direct look in the eye as a show of aggression, calling for a duel. That we have left to apes. And the game in the "peepers" for men - identification of who is cooler. Naturally, when so looking woman, we're a little lost. On the one hand, we understand that a woman can not pose a danger on the other hand, too strong setup, the rest of bushy ancestors.

Troubling, too close-seed male clothes. When cool look charming ladies slips from our shoes up on pants, jackets, sweaters and so on, almost without noticing us ... From this will not by itself even dressed immaculately dandy. The impression formed is that the contents of the second-hand jacket you do not care. A speck of dirt on the shoe is much more important than strong-willed chin and kind of attentive eyes. And determine approving this view or not, we can not. It may very well be that you have appreciated our ability to get dressed. But we are not aware.

As you can see, hardly it comes to dating, the man becomes very thin-skinned and sensitive creature, with a huge stock of cowardice. (Not all, I repeat, but many.) Those who brave and resolute, to write makes no sense, and they both fit, no matter what you do. And you shall know all about them for yourself ...

Overt demonstration of your interest and desire to meet us only pleases. And in any case is not regarded as a license or availability. In most cases, men generally prefer to think that this is not a reasonable woman, and they are compelling. Honestly, honestly! We do not really like to try to understand why a woman agrees to so immediately. And certainly do not want to guess that she agrees with all at once. Much more profitable for our self-esteem to believe that a woman is respectable. Simply, we are very, very attractive. But if the same happens in relation to another man ... Here we are champions of morality cleaner old maids.

Generally a man's vanity and pride can be played endlessly. Any ambiguous sign, we will surely be interpreted in their favor. For example: A woman looking at us, smiling cheerfully. And we would never, that we simply fly was open. We are confident that she liked scary. Approach, we begin to speak of courtesy. Woman almost laughs. Oh, so we are so clever! And try to convince us ...