Sooner or later ends. Even eternal love. But here as in a joke: even if you eat, you have two choices. That is, the novel may end differently. Let's start with a joyous finale, a wedding. (And they lived happily ever after, until you got married ...) Why do men marry, despite their love of freedom? It would seem - well, live and live for yourself. Rejoice ... But no. Most of us still can not withstand a frontal attack and after a short bloody battle is losing its way. Reasons for this may be the mass. Here are some snapshot.

• He was tired myself to wash a shirt and go shopping (a very strong argument for men).

• He is tired of wasting time and money on endless bars, movie theaters (laughter laughter, and as it happens - a lot easier to live together than to meet).

• He wanted to solve the housing problem (applies mostly to immigrants and poor).

• Feeling that it was time to settle down (what it is, can not explain even the men).

• Tired of long-term abstinence.

• Tired of lonely nights in front of the TV (particularly acute when all my friends already marry).

• Need a nanny.

• He was forced to power.

• He loves you.

When a man ready to give up freedom? Apparently, men are willing to give up freedom mainly because of the craving for comfort. Or even the illusion of comfort ... Of course, the rare man marries for any one reason. As a rule, it is necessary that the reasons were several, so that they complement each other. But no matter how serious these reasons may be, still we have to overcome a very strong internal resistance to seriously think about marriage. Even more frightening hint of it aloud. Even if a man says about such a possibility in jest, with a merry laugh, as if in passing, he's actually considering this option. Not a fact, of course, that he must make an offer. But the chances are very high.

Another more or less a sure sign that he is not against the march of Mendelssohn: man begins to mumble something incomprehensible about his income. We do not like to talk about his earnings to just anyone, just as women do not like to talk about his age. This is a military secret. And to know about the real state of our purse can only be the closest and proven people. Even friends, we will not tell how much exactly earn. It also may limit our beloved freedom. So what if the man suddenly for no apparent reason suddenly began to reduce the debit with credit, drawing on a napkin intricate charts and graphs, it is almost ripe to run a jewelry store for a ring. True, he might be interested in and your income if you are working. This is not a faux pas. This desire to be clear about the future of the family budget. About many things can be said is that he either leaves some stuff in your apartment, or allows you to clutter up your bathroom with all sorts of creams and lotions. Our apartment and our stuff - it's a personal territory.

 Give us the will, we would have labeled her secretions of special glands, and for days it would be patrolled. Once we both did. Now we have to do without the caustic odors. But this area does not become more accessible to outsiders. A man never will lead your toothbrush at home women, which has no plans to close a long relationship. And do not let her keep the handkerchief or a box of pads. And because there is nothing here! .. So if he bought the second razor and left it to you (saying it is anything), then, has designs on expanding their territory. If he introduces you to the parents, it is also a good sign. Although the blessing of parents no longer need anyone still introduce my mother to each counter is also out. Therefore, as a rule, this dubious pleasure awarded only the prospective partner.

Do not start talking about marriage

All this is quite a sure sign that a man in his heart stand the thought of marriage. Not a hundred percent sure, but the probability is very high. But here we must remember that it may scare off any careless word or action. For example, most men can not stand when the talk starts a woman. We see this as pressure. And any pressure makes us want to do just the opposite. Out of a sense of contradiction ... Even if he was ready for such a formulation of the problem, excessive aggressiveness women can ruin the whole thing. Here we want to see the initiative came entirely from us. That is, we must choose the time, the overall tone and shape the conversation.

To a direct question: "When we get married?" - And tempted to reply: "Never!" Although in most cases we try to avoid sharp language. A rare man will say simply and directly "no." We all know that if you dramatically change their attitude to us. And why do we need? Better to give a glimmer of hope, or at least leave you in doubt. Naturally, without promising anything specific. That is, man will never answer you the truth on this perennial question: "Will you take Will you marry me?" He will wriggle, wriggle, to change the subject ... (even if he is not against it). But to speak clearly and specifically "yes, dear" or "no, dear," he would not. Only if its really quite dense priprut to the wall. Therefore it is better to give him the opportunity to take the initiative itself. In an extreme case, if it is not itching for a long time, you can gently push it to this conversation.

Replacing the "I" to "we"

In addition to these surest signs, there are those who really nothing they say, but women are hard to find a lot of signifiers. For example, many women begin to look through catalogs of wedding dresses, heard from a male pronoun "we." "We're going on vacation," "We'll live happily ever after", etc. it.p. Yes, like it is a good sign - replaced the "I" to "we." But such options rather say that the man and Schuster knows female weakness than of his intention to live with you in grief and joy until death separates you. Man more than all the words in the world like the pronoun "I". He and a year later, then married life with difficulty pronouncing "we." All I am yes I am ... Well, more "you" if you are somewhat guilty. So believe it myself, "we" is dangerous. A very good chance that he simply dodging, trying to identify for themselves any benefit.

The same applies generally to the construction plans for the future. Today he lies in your bed and rants about how you arrange your common apartment, and tomorrow do not even remember it. Such are the building castles in the air, we often use to keep the woman next door, but not to allow too close. We understand that most women are interested in whether the relations perspective or not. Know and shamelessly play on this weakness. Therefore, can easily carry all sorts of nonsense about how we buy someday a little house on the beach. You do love a nice romantic story? Here you are. We are not hard. And the dizzying picture that he draws, the greater the chance that anything good will come of it. Soap bubble, zilch ... Such talk to us - a way to achieve the desired minimum losses. Namely - to nothing binding bedding relationships.

Hence morality: faith should only be some real action, not talk. Of all the gossip is one exception - flashed the word "married". You can trust him. Not always, but in many cases. All other promises, if they are not backed by concrete deeds and actions - simply an attempt to stretch their own pleasure. If a man is ready to build a family, he does it, not rants. This is completely accurate.