TIPS FOR A PERFECT DATE
First impression – This is the most important parameter which everybody notice about yourself and makes a opinion about you on the basis of your behavior. Always try to be yourself on a date otherwise you are going to give your date a false impression of who you really are. Look your best because first impression really do count. You can tell a lot about a person from their appearance and from the way they act. It’s not just the way you dress, it’s the way you walk, the way you look at him/her, the way you address others, how graceful you are or aren’t. Nothing is right or wrong here, what’s important is that you show your date the real you.
Personal presentation – Dress to impress, however do dress appropriately for the outing you are going to. If it’s a casual affair then dress casually, but don’t over do it.
Where to go - If you’re asked where you would like to go then pick somewhere you can talk so you can get to know each other.
If you are choosing a restaurant, its good idea but choose something casual that’s not too expensive, especially if you are unsure of who is paying the bill.
What to eat – When you are at restaurant be careful with the choices you make when ordering from the menu or buffet. Try something that’s little more delicate, perhaps a salad and fish or even rice dishes that are much easier and less messy. So that you have a meal together and have enough time to communicate together.
What to chat about – Be prepare with the things to chat about on first date. Think of questions you can ask him or her but nothing too deep or probing. Try to stay at some general relevant and interesting questions only. Other than that you can talk about his interests, work, food, restaurants, holidays etc. Hopefully, you will have an ease of being together and the conversation will flow without too much trouble.
The end of night – Ok now what do you do? Well if you don’t liked it, you can say something like you would like just friends. Is s/he wants to kiss you good night then make sure it’s a kiss on checks otherwise you will only encourage him or her. Or if it was fantastic, and it was everything that you dreamed of and more, s/he your princess and you definitely want to see them again. If this is the case, a little bit of flirtatiousness at the end
of the night would be in order and a kiss on the lips, but don’t go any further. Being flirtatious and teasing are two different things so make sure you know the difference.
