The way to a man's heart ...
The easiest way to persuade people to give you service when he was comfortable with his physiological needs are satisfied and he feels in harmony with the surrounding world. For men, this moment may be the time stave off hunger. Simply put, ask a man fulfill your desire, after he ate. Experienced women know that they should not stick to the man asking for money on a new dress or visit a beauty salon, as long as he should not eat. Remember the saying - the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Want to persuade her husband to make unscheduled visit to your mom? Wait until he eat.
Pick the right moment in order to persuade the boss to give you a regular holiday for my account? Wait until he gets back from lunch. This method of persuasion, even men can hardly be called manipulation. After all, you're not doing anything to influence the decision men, you are not using prohibited methods of persuasion, not trying to covertly influence the point of view of your contact. But at the same time you do the manipulation, picking a good time for its request, describes it when your partner least annoyed when his guard somewhat dulled: he had just eaten and is in a relaxed state.
If you want to use this method of manipulation, remember that a man should not be interrupted during a meal, even if you really want to present your request. Many women believe that having started to eat and quench acute hunger, the man has become complaisant and soft. Without waiting for the meal, they begin to "attack" before the object of manipulation will fill your stomach. This is a big mistake. A man only becomes a convenient target for manipulation, when his nutritional needs are fully met. Another tip: do not think that a man indifferent to the innovation and originality in the food. They are not all equal than to fill your stomach. Many of them are real gourmets and prefer a diverse and original food.
A good hostess always knows the habits of her husband. You can skillfully use this knowledge to achieve success in manipulating. For example, your beloved loves seafood. In such a case before an important and very serious request you should seriously prepare for, and dress for dinner only his favorite dishes. Do not bypass the party and tableware. Despite the fact that your main task is to feed your man, yet it is worth considering, and the aesthetic aspect of the process. Try to create an atmosphere conducive to a good mood. A man will appreciate your preparation and be ready to please you, and you after such a surprise you can safely ask him about something that is still not yet resolved to ask.
Ask the man of good wine
This method of manipulation is very effective, but safe. Alcohol in small quantities relaxes the person, but there is no guarantee that your interlocutor does not want additives. Therefore, to use alcohol as an assistant in their manipulation must be very cautious, preparing for the situation if something goes wrong. To resort to a similar method of manipulation is possible if you want to ask a man about something meaningful to you. Offering to join you and drink a glass of good French wine, you are setting up your buddy on a celebratory mood. He starts to behave accordingly - on the holiday to have fun and relax. Such a behavior you are on hand, you want it to be the most relaxed.
Of course, persuading a man to support a company, you have to somehow motivate his behavior. Here comes the time to act. For example, you send a business trip for a month in another town. You know that your beloved man react to this news without enthusiasm is likely to simply forbid you to go and ask to be abandoned. You in whatever was needed to persuade him to give permission for the trip, because it affects your career. Your action: try to organize a small celebration, inviting your mate to note some important event for both of you. Remove cooked for special occasions a bottle of good French wine, which just waited just a moment.
You are holding wine glasses, your darling waiting for, but do not immediately remove the veil of secrecy, wait a bit with a story about your trip, wait until the alcohol would affect your buddy. Start with his story after first drinking a glass: alcohol has already had its effect, but has not clouded his mind. Beginning his story, try to present it in a somewhat different light: at this very moment you are acting like a real arm. The news will be perceived as you are able to present it. Champagne, candles, slow music - a preparatory stage.
Currently manipulation starts right now. Begin your story with the fact that you have arranged a holiday in honor of your improvement, which must be reflected in the material aspect of your life, tell your boss began to treat you more seriously and are already going to raise your salary. Yet he continues to test you, and to be completely confident in his choice, he wants to send you a short while on a business trip. This turn of events may, and does not cause elation at your man, but seeing splendor and hope in your eyes, he just can not stop you from traveling. This tactic will bear fruit in if you are able to create the desired mood of a man and do not overdo it with the booze.
