When we open a companion their thoughts, things, ideas, his past, we simultaneously pass it describes a feeling experienced by the people and events. Such a transfer occurs, even if those feelings have subsided long ago. The transfer method is constantly used the priests, lawyers, psychiatrists and psychologists to administer and ensure credibility. Many teachers, fortune-tellers, enterprising businessmen, secretaries, traders and representatives of other professions have also successfully used this method. With it you can change the behavior of the person providing his devotion to you.

Consider two ways to transfer used in our society.

Religion

Priests cause the believer to be frank, give a sense of peace and forgiveness. Parishioner feels emotional relief.

The most famous example of such a transfer of feelings - a confession. Confession, the man reveals his innermost secrets, desires, thoughts and attentive listener. Speaking to the end, the man feels his own importance. Feels that his love is freed from guilt, feel gratitude. Because the listener is usually anonymous, the positive charge of warmth and gratitude is addressed to God and the Church and is transferred to them.

Psychology

Psychiatrists and psychologists use their skills to listen, to achieve an emotional response. They encourage their patients to lead a free discussion about the events of their lives, with emotional content, and listen with interest and empathy. Sigmund Freud found that his patient is hopelessly fell in love with him, when shared with him their thoughts, and he listened to their not objecting. Freud was not handsome, but not to give women the possibility of falling in love with him, he did not show them on the eyes. However, women still fall in love with him though and talking to themselves, not seeing it. This is the phenomenon of transfer of love.

How to apply the method of transfer

The quickest way to a man's heart - to intercept the love he felt for another woman. You may like to bring together all the love lives in the heart of man, and force transfer it to you. Every man who once loved, can fall in love again, that is, fall in love with you! You can win his love, deliberately questioning and listening to without objection. A little patience and experience - and you can easily use the method of transfer of love. In essence, this entire process is similar to an interview with the only difference being that you're talking from one exciting event in the life of man to the next. Explore with him all his feelings and perezhiva'niya. Ask him to describe his ambition, guilt, resentment, anger, pleasure, competence, dignity, passion, sorrow, love, jealousy and dependency.

Get a man to reveal their secrets, problems and other features, asking him to speak, without exception, all that comes to mind. This is the primary way to find unconscious motives of his conduct. By asking questions, create a welcoming atmosphere. Listening to him, show warmth. Because of your openness to it would be easy to say. Trustworthiness, empathy soothe, tying the speaker to the listener. Such a shift gives rise to feelings of deep, strong devotion and love to you.

 

How to build questions

Imagine that you and watch a TV program. Let it serves as a background for your questions.

Do not ask: "When did you first watched this movie?"

First ask: "Why do you like this movie?"

Do not ask: "Who is your favorite character?" Better to ask: "Why do you like this person?"

Do not just ask: "What is your favorite sport?"

Ask: "Why do you like him?"

You and your opponent

Do you know about his first love, first job and about other important things for him? If you can not answer these questions, then you find it hard to conquer his feelings, because you were not appreciative listener, in which he needs. There is a risk of another woman, the owner of the methods of transfer of feelings. If it will inspire him to a monologue, his feelings may well move with you on it. Since this method of transport may be used against you, other women, you should apply it consistently to keep the love of a man.

His talk distract him from "her"

If a man is interested in some other woman, then you can attract him to her, prompting talk about his hobby. This may hurt your pride, but will give effect. Many women make the mistake of not asking about their experiences with other women in the past, believing that love between a man - too painful subject for discussion. According to them, starting a conversation, they too will be forced to tell about their own past relationships. Avoid these issues - ably directing the conversation back on track. Moreover, if you do not keep confidential conversations, and all know about it, your relationship will be jeopardized: you run the risk of losing his love.

Sensitive topics

Listen to the man "all ears". Help him to make something that will facilitate his soul. Let him confess to you. From the outset, it may not be entirely honest, but do not worry: this is yet to come. Do not immediately push the man on the discussion so unpleasant for him, or matters which it considers purely personal. Very soon he will tell you everything, including the most intimate details of their sex lives.

10 signs that it is up to you crazy

He really deeply in love or you wishful thinking?

1. He just calls and the city some nonsense like "I do not know why I call ... I just wanted to hear your voice."

Well, if he stutters a little while. Peppy tone and well-trained voice showman nullify the value of such a call. A big plus in his favor, if during the conversation, he is not distracted, a colleague to explain the printer device, and does not repair the vacuum cleaner.

2. Tells you about his friends. And not to boast of "cool girlfriend, and does so to his entourage with you thought.

For many men think about a favorite to place and out of place naturally. This he seemed to confirm that it is good and he is proud of her.

3. Good to your friends.

Even better, if he does not stay with them familiar terms, as they refer to him as a foreigner - with interest, but keeping some distance. However, if he asks about the cat one of the female friends, you can and alert.

4. Arrive on time for dates.

"My girlfriend knows that sometimes I'm late - justifies Tolia, 36 years old, an agent for the sale of motorcycles. - If I have something to delays, I'm sure she'll call and warn. But the trick is that when you're mad about her simply will not allow any obstacle. "

5. Do not laugh at your hobbies.

6. Not confessed to their former affections.

Anyway, not too much about them spreading. Message that he had met with a special, which had a dog the same breed, can be regarded as quite normal - in fact it will not compare you with it and, most importantly, be brief! It is quite another if he embarks on a rambling explanation of why she left him.

7. Appoints goodbye.

If he is truly in love, then he needs to know when you will be back. In this case, it should not mumble something incomprehensible like "Maybe go somewhere on Saturday - I'll call." Even if at this moment it is really bad savvy or do not know whether he is free Saturday (maybe he will have to work hard instead of head), he was able to find the right words to avoid any ambiguity.

9. After the intimacy he wanted to talk.

No, it does not stick his nose in the wall (and not pretending to be asleep) - it terribly interesting, as you with him, what do you think about sex in general and plans for tomorrow.

10. Directly tells you: "I'm from you mad."

Or something like that, soul - and without the slightest hint from the outside. The mere sight of you breaks into a smile, touching his ear scratching your cat and even a watering your asparagus. Call after you have left to say good night. If this does not occur on the tenth date, it is better to think it is time to leave the game and look for someone better.