Child, without a doubt, you need both parents - and my father and mother equally. But most of all education still engaged in mom and dad a present or absent completely. For any mother has some strange woman's intuition, through which she feels she feels the child is able to somewhat guess his desire to prevent trouble. Maybe this feeling arises even when the child is in utero. The child dictates it, what to eat, when to sleep. And she unknowingly begins to fulfill his wishes, thereby adapting to it. Dad already on this very early stage is at a distance, at best dealing with the heir through the abdominal wall.

Yet dad in a child at a particular place. Go for a walk with his mother - a common thing, go for a walk with my father - a holiday! The child has written on his face: "Look at everything - it's my dad!" Some unusual tremor occurs at the kid because he has a father and this father walking with his arm. So even if you're parents are divorced or simply went to war with each other, step on the throat of his own pride, resentment and foolish principles Treat your baby communion with the Pope, it is absolutely necessary. The role of the father in a child's life special ..

As a general rule, if both parents are in the collection, Mama often perceived as telling the radio, the Pope to give all the attention, the pope obeyed unquestioningly, Dad - this is "our everything". Mom - this is the machine for washing, cooking soups, handkerchief, and god knows what else. Pope rarely scolded children, due to the fact that less time to spend with them. Children, of course, very much, that they are not abused. Pope quickly agreed to buy various necessary and unnecessary gifts that too can not but rejoice. Where the mother refuses, are most likely to agree dad. And we need to say what the pope often ride on the neck of children, depict horses, making her child on her back, playing snowballs, ice hockey, lie, jump, run around and be fooled, as required by the little imp.

In fact, in many families the father of the family itself is seen as a child. He, too, often do not know where are his things, which is stored in the refrigerator, turning on the gas and so on and so forth. But all the above absolutely does not belong to families where the opposite is true - the Pope plays the role of mom, and mom certainly not able to play the role of the father: a break from their regular maternal duties at work, creating and multiplying the household budget. So, too, can live, and there are many examples. And in the end, comes to mind the old children's ditty: "Dad can be anything but a mother, only her mother can not be!"

If no father? Pope may not be for various reasons ... It is a sailor, a geologist, pilot, or earning a living in another country. Maybe Dad on the nature of a lone wolf, and maybe left her for another woman. Situation may be different in different circumstances. Women experiencing the absence of the pope is much heavier than the children themselves, simply because in the adult world adopted a certain pattern, and even easier to share the responsibilities of family life for two. Children at an early age, usually quietly accept life as it is, especially if the next - kind, loving mother. Growing up, many kids somehow find yourself a role model for compensating the prolonged absence of close male image.

Even in a complete family Teens tend to rely on an additional male authority - an uncle, grandfather, friend of the family. Of course, in the absence of the second parent of questions from the child can not be avoided. This curiosity about the origin of surnames and the question of why we live this way and others - so. There is nothing wrong in a frank conversation with your child. We note again that children are very responsive and kind. And the situation in the family understand and accept this for what it is. It is important to talk about it without the anxiety and nervousness, and tell the kid everything was quiet, with respect to him and myself.