Every fifth woman starts a man for the sake of children. And this is a good solution and wise action: a man and a friend of children, and his nurse, and brother, and a strict teacher. Yes, that's great, but many women admit that their husbands were inadequately perceived children are jealous, try to bring up the rigor. Because there are women who do not want "to grow at a garden of" children, and men. But what if you bring men to their already existing family? It is most convenient if the new man comes into your life when your child is not yet five years, or when he was fourteen. In these cases, the man most able to make friends with the child. If you acquire offspring together, begin to teach it to children from the very beginning of pregnancy, and sometimes earlier.

Children borrow from their parents habits, codes of conduct, imitate their manners, and character. The higher the authority of the father in the family, the stronger the effect it's behavior of children. His father's character puts stamp especially on the personality of children. The role of men in the upbringing of children is priceless. Not only job skills he can teach them, but also have a significant impact on the formation of beliefs. Convince not only words but are living examples. Tell your man that he is required to display the attention to the education of your children. And it is not limited to the material (commodity-money) software. He should take care of the upbringing of children, to know the measure of rewards and punishments. Excessive spoiled children sometimes combined with an excessive punishment

Men tend, in a fit of fury, severely punish their children, and then pamper, zaglazhivaya guilt. From you - women - depends on providing a single line of conduct you and a spouse in relation to children. Disputes about how education allowed in the presence of younger family members. They undermine your credibility in their eyes, make a family rift. As children grow circle requirements for them is expanding, and these requirements become more complex. Complicated in this regard and the lives of adults. Unacceptable withdrew from your companion from upbringing of their children with reference to employment in the workplace and hobbyists.

Sunday's dad

Nature created man, dismissed him time to live and to have time to do something for this time to stay in the memory of their descendants. Men tend to continue themselves in the first and last name of her child. Very complicated situation arises between father and child if the couple divorced. They do not leave suddenly, the divorce is preceded by a series of quarrels and conflicts. Suffering party in this case are children. A child growing out in an atmosphere of incessant scandals may become emotionally drained. Children who went through divorce of parents, become reclusive, ill learn, even if you do not lack ability, teachers complain about their absent-mindedness and passivity.

If you feel that in quarrels with the partner went away, try to send a child for some time to grandma and grandpa. After a divorce, meeting his father and the child must not only take place on Saturdays or Sundays, on the side. For men will be better if he would go home in the middle of the week, help your child with lessons, or take it to stay the night, then the child will feel the impact of his father, while "Sunday father" - it's fun. Stay on top. Over time, you and the father of the child will understand that a child after communicating with her father returned satisfied. You'll be glad that he kept his father. Life is long, and maybe tomorrow there is such a situation, when you ask for help from her ex-husband.