The mystery of your birth

Want to know why you were born? What is your mission? Take a comfortable position, relax, close your eyes. For a moment not not think about anything. Before starting, ask someone to read you the following text:

Here you are, here and now. Feel your body, listen to your breathing (beat 3 minutes). Go back 10 years. Who are you? Student. Work. Look at yourself. Feel. Where are you? Look around you (pause for 3 minutes). Go back 10 years ago. Who are you? Schoolboy. Student. Look at yourself. Feel. Where are you? (Pause 3 minutes). Go back 10 years ago. You are a child. Play on the court. Look at yourself. Feel. Look at your friends (Pause 3 minutes). Go back 10 years ago. You're lying in bed. Look at you kind and gentle eyes (pause for 3 minutes). Return back. Rise above the city. Here you see him down. Over the country. Over the globe. You - the soul. Will fly around the earth. Look at her. Choose a location. Fly there. What is this place? This is your country. This is your city. And here you see their mom and dad. They are still quite young. Why did you come to this land? What is your goal? What else do you need to do in my life ...?

Now slowly and breathe deeply a few times. And slowly, open your eyes. You all right? You went to where to come and should have received answers to their questions. There is a misconception that parents do not choose. Vice versa. Children do not choose. But the kids just unite and parents. That you had once brought his mom and dad, to be born. These facts became known to people not of dreams but of hypnosis.

There is a legend that the child - the most intelligent creature. He knows everything. But at a time when he was born to him an angel flies, and slaps him on the lips that he could not tell anything. One of my friends neonatologist said that, indeed, immediately after birth, when you look into the eyes of a child, then they reflect the entire universe. And in a moment, a look becomes distracted and moving in different directions.

Does it mean that you do not need to raise children? Yes. More than that. Must have their own learning. Your little tot, who still can not talk, can teach you more than you do it, with three higher education.

Children are splayed and harmful only after we begin to educate them. We need to learn to live in harmony with them. Why do we think smarter than they are? Because more than lived? Read more? Most have seen? And they do not suffer from complexes and act as nature ordered. And she instructed us all the same. But we, because of education long ago lost it. The child will never tolerate their natural needs, whether in front of him, even the Pope. If he wants to eat, it would require saturation, whether in a zoo, be it on the street, whether in the theater (although I do not know what he will be there). These rules of etiquette were invented hundreds of years, but they are obviously harmful to human health. And they are so velis into our consciousness that is gradually replacing the instinct of self-preservation. A child he was perfect! The kid will never go on her hands to her aunt or uncle, if senses danger. Although you did not persuade. And the notion of respect for him is not worried. "It is dangerous" - more than it does not care about anything.

How can we educate our children? They do not need to bring up. They need help to grow. In a very wise book says: "Treat your child as to the shoots, which you planted. You're not going to pull it over the leaves, which he quickly grew. You will not scold him, when suddenly the color disappoint your expectations. You will irrigate and fertilize it, okuchivaya and defending against any insects. So our children. They need a trembling of love and not moralizing. "

How can we help them? Constantly throwing up information. Child's brain in the first five years of life, learn the information more than the rest of 100 years. This proves that we must always give him the information for development. Do not overwhelm prohibitions, but rather to attract new and new things.

If a child is naughty without obvious signs of physical needs, it means that his brain had already studied the environmental situation and he is bored. And kids always want to receive new information. Some neonatologists recommend buying children toys that can break. Your baby does this "dirty trick" is not because he is bad and harmful, and not because the Chinese are producing low quality goods. And because he is studying. He will decide that machine parts, but will know how it is arranged. If he does so as a child, he can not in adult life to build the correct logical chain. Because he did not have enough of a link ... maaaalenkogo broken typewriter.

When to start? - You ask - "When he first smile? Or when to say that his name is Sasha? Or maybe when he begins to walk?" ... You should begin before pregnancy. In this case some people and see the absurdity of the situation. I already hear your brain crunching questions: "How to pregnancy? So who taught you?" So in fact he does not understand anything! ". Etc. But we're with you already know that baby, you're trying to bring into this world is already near. He is just waiting for when you're ready. And phrases like: "In 16 years I was not ready" - there are not relevant. We're talking about the highest. And we do not understand what the willingness to choose your toddler. The main thing that you have done for him, it brought into this world. Now helping him.

And here. You are going to get pregnant and have already told the future crumbs on how beautiful this world. When you are pregnant, you start to enhanced training toddler. You sing him songs, read books and ... what's interesting to read you, just loud. You tell him about their emotions, and explain what has caused such emotion. In general, try as much as possible to tell your child. It is argued that if, during pregnancy, the mother explained to the child that everything wonderful and interesting that the bad feelings pass, and life is beautiful, and my mother loved him, generations pass quickly, painlessly and without any physical damage, as Mother and baby. This happens because the kid is not afraid to come into this world. He knows what's safe and waiting for him. So do not try to stay in his house, where he stayed 9 (well, who both) blissful months.

Are looking at the behavior of children. Learn from them to live openly. Children do not lie, yet we do not teach. They came into this life is not what would be our ruin. They carry out its mission. As well as you own. They want to become strong and healthy people who would be able to give joy and love. And if we show it to them, they boldly teach others. What will be fine, if love, not AIDS and cancer will multiply on the earth.

And another thing. Do not think that children are something you need. The fact that you put so much effort and work for their growth and education, does not mean that they are indebted to you. Debt must go in the future. They have now their children. And they own. And let the caring, tenderness and love, you have passed from generation to generation, as we read in books, a curse. Let your good curse accompanies all of your dynasty!