Taboo for bitches and Heartbreakers
World of modern relationships between men and women is diverse and often cruel. You hurt, and you offend, you throw, you throw, but be that as it may, there are words, actions, antics, which are contraindicated even the bitchiness girl. Today, many girls are proud of their ruthlessness and skill to be proud and cold-blooded - well, just like a man. The word "bitch" of the abuse had long been turned into a compliment and a very coveted benchmark to which to aspire. Unfortunately, many girls in their attempts to present an insidious and fatal particular, a kind of femme fatal, often behind the curve and cross the line permitted.
Perhaps after reading this, you just grunted skeptically: "Futures permitted? Do this for the bitches and the Heartbreakers may exist which is the bounds of decency? "Just imagine, yes. There are things that should not make in any case. Tabu to bitch and Heartbreakers :
1. Even the most brutal bitch should not laugh in the face and continue fouling the person who sincerely repented and asked forgiveness. If you see that the former is actually aware of their past mistakes and admitted them, then why continue to punish him? This you turn yourself from just avenger of gonzo sadist. It you want? In my opinion, not the most attractive roles ...
2. If you consider yourself to this stinker, do not waste your time on the oppression of the weaker. That is, if your ex for whatever parameters weaker than you (the poor, mentally unstable or is working under your start), should not be with him. Fouling someone who is not a worthy opponent and can not be any answers - it ignoble and ungrateful. So do not be petty and do not redeem herself on "small fry"!
3. If your esque sidekick began to establish personal life with a new girlfriend, then your intervention to prevent them from dating and spoil the relationship is unlikely to be a manifestation of your bitchiness. Vice versa, so you prove that you still care about the former, and that his personal life you do not and probably will not. At least until then while you're so much interested in foreign relations, you just do not have the time and effort to build their own.
4. Another version of the bitchiness unreasonable - a game in the dog in the manger. You have diverged, but you still want to feel his power over the former, especially sexual power. And you keep it to seduce, entice and then dynamite and push away. Do you think this is very sexy and bitchiness? In fact - just stupid. Your desire to seduce, to be strengthened in its power over the former, not as safe as it seems at first glance. This usually indicates the presence of certain psychological problems. Of course, nothing wrong, yet you'd better consult a specialist.
Dangerous Liaisons
Sometimes, just wanted to play the role Heartbreakers and shatter the heart of the ungrateful former lover. And yet it is not necessary. Why, you'll be surprised again, what that moralizing? No, morality has nothing to do with it. Just sometimes be Heartbreakers disadvantageous from the standpoint of common sense. There lived Alexander. Macho in their prime. He owned a small network of fashion boutiques and famous for its windy and the ability to seduce any girl within a radius of five kilometers. He was considered to be a good party, if it was not such a womanizer.
One day my good friend Veronica got a job to work for him a saleswoman. She was very good-looking, charming, amorous, and Alexander never had anything against office romances. No wonder that after a couple of weeks of communication between them on fire with serious passion. Their relationship was rich, turbulent, but, alas, not too long. Alexander soon grew bored and switched to one of their loyal customers.
Veronica mad with rage and jealousy. She began struggling to build schemes against the boss and former lover. The result was more than predictable: she was fired without severance pay. Perhaps, this story made you righteous indignation: what the poor thing to do? To sit quietly as a mouse, like this scum and do not get her as a girl for one night? Had she had to lay down their arms or herself resign? And here and there! The story has not ended. Just a month later, another friend of mine Lada announced its intention to get to work in the same boutique. I discouraged her as she could:
- Lada, you're crazy. The owner of a boutique - a real dog. He has to drag you into bed, and then put up without severance pay. Did not you hear what happened to Veronica?
- In what I hope - mysteriously said Lada.
Soon she took on the job counselor and the seller to the vacancy of the new passions Alexander. A month later, Alexander left her. However, the tricky Lada already computed their further moves. After leaving she went out of their to become its former ally. Their correct behavior and the desire to be a good friend and a highly professional counselor she was able to secure the patronage of Alexander on all issues.
Feeling gratitude and guilt, he raised the salary of the Lada. Then sent it to improve their qualifications at the prestigious seminar at his own expense, then pay for language courses. An effort to assuage feelings of guilt and Alexander all raised and raised the girl through the ranks until, until it became his deputy. Lada now opened their business and successfully compete with Alexander. They still are friends and communicate. That is such a positive good example where being Heartbreakers after parting extremely shortsighted!
I'm femme fatale
Of course, the image Heartbreakers is very attractive and bright. If you apply it once after leaving, you may be tempted to stay in such an image forever. But only worth it? I have had many girlfriends, for whom separation from a loved one held under the theme "How the Steel Was Tempered. Yes, the gap for many tempers. Girls take on the stiffness, coolness, endurance. Some even fall into a hysterical fun and feel re-born or had received his sight. "
"That's how we should live! - Think of these girls. - No tears, snot, Ohoven and sighs! Enough already sighing cry of every scoundrel. I have a spectacular girl, I'm femme fatale. I tied with unhappy love. 'd Rather break the hearts of men and collecting are not mutually in love with my men. "
And so disillusioned and "wiser" she begins a new life "cruel Heartbreakers, spending years on the manipulation, violent games and other activities that can be summarized in the concept of" room for all masculine. " In fact, after the break is not worth getting stuck in the image Heartbreakers too long. It's one thing to play a bit of femme fatale to quickly recover from a breakup, is quite another - obsessed by the desire to break men's hearts.
This would seem to have a positive impact on your self-esteem, but in reality it just hurt you develop and grow further. Remember: Now, after breaking up, you are just waiting for a handsome prince who will be with you, be treated as the most precious treasure on earth, and consequently, change the roles brutal Heartbreakers on the role of the princess! Surely you and very much more I want to be a happy girl, but not always lonely avenger.
