Speck in the eye can see in my logs do not notice
Oh, how we are not haunted by this speck especially if it is in the eye of the beloved. Sound familiar does not it? We draw in your mind the perfect, beautiful and sexual partner, and then begin to dismantle the bones, the same instance that we come into the real world. And nowhere is no getting away from these specks, and they hurt the eyes! God, how awful it is eat, so he's champs, and then snore like at night! A paste, you saw how he squeezes? No, well, everyone squeezed from the bottom and it presses in the middle of the tube!
And indeed you have already forgotten when he gave the flowers last time, and what kind of gatherings every weekend with friends in a cafe? What do you think, why is this happening? And you did not think that maybe beloved man is nice to sit in a cafe with friends than spend time with you and this just your fault! He snores at night? And you but it is infinitely pilish with or without a reason! It is not as squeezing toothpaste? But you always throw the used cotton pads for removing makeup!
Do you think that this is normal every day to arrange interviews "with prejudice" where he was, how much to whom, why not call in the last two hours? Lord, why did you not call itself? What kind of crazy stereotypes that the man should always take the first step! Maybe he too was waiting for that you call first? You annoy him careless in bed? Well, while he, too, to put it mildly uncomfortable during the "order as" listen to your "soulful" a story about what your best friend again split with her boyfriend. You do not have enough passion and romance, say, and you meet the evening of favorite romantic candlelit dinner? Do you buy sexy lingerie, and carefully monitor your body? You yourself do something to the passion has not died away?
You always make a mountain out of a molehill, cheat yourself, roll your tantrums and periodically sends his beloved in the foot erotic journey, "and then wonders why he lost interest to you? Yes, because with him an alien woman, he linked his fate with a completely different person and was not ready to order "metamorphosis" that began to happen to you. You hurt that he will not support, does not want to feel the problems of yours and find out what's happening in your soul? Tell me when the last time you helped him? When you're talking heart to heart? And do not make excuses because of it all need to pull the claws! Of course, if no end to cut guy who wants to then share their problems? And you try not to scold, but to support and help to believe in themselves.
Remember how you were, except when you met, you tried to climb into his past and to arrange about it jealousy? Yes, you and his friends are not irritated, by contrast seemed nice and companionable, you yourself were not averse to stay in their company. You totally did not care for his habit of flaunting the apartment in his underwear and snore at night. You should not only his appearance but for the fact that as you say. Earlier in your vocabulary, no harsh words, which you could address it. Why is it now all has changed. Instead, attentive and responsive you become selfish and rude, the man became a thing for you to be the most convenient for you otherwise it is useless.
If you want to fix it and return it the perfect time when you were happy, understand one simple thing: an attitude you brought to my own. Everything returns to normal, and how we sow so much negativity, sooner or later we get in return. If you want to get something, you must first give something. Can not living together only to take and require the need to also do something for a loved one. Be objective, because you used a lot to give, so the same lot received. You want romance, passion, beautiful relationship? Start with yourself. Prepare for a man a nice gift and a romantic dinner. Do not be afraid to take the first step, the cause of all failures in the affairs of the heart, but in ourselves, so your happiness - in your hands!
