If sexual function is laid by the Creator in every living organism, then sex is a mandatory component of life. And the logic is it that life without sex - not life and existence. Life without sex is korotaniya his remaining days, years, Living out their lives. Even without a life without sex, but life without desire sex. And, in this case that, in general, its concept, includes the word "sex"? It is now an easy task, since its complexity is required to communist ideology, which for seventy years in the entire country "was not sex." There is a change of generations, and all the "no sex". Our lexical rules as yesterday and today do not have words and expressions, which reflect the content and completeness of the action. And the fact that previously had all belonged to the slang. And it abroad morality.

And a very interesting question, but what is the current young tribe? In terms of how it is said that there is now? Yet it is clear to us that literature stopyatidesyatiletney old will not give us answers - judgments and vocabulary today is quite wrong. But do we know about it, while reflecting the meaning and physical contact, and spiritual intimacy? And at the same time, "covered" the veil of aesthetics. What would we say to that linguistics, coupled with his semanseologiey?

But science is silent, and came to the stage of American culture. Appeared footage from pirated translations. And behind them in our speech included expressions such as "make love" and even "sex", which is consonant with the word "fuck". Tell me now that the directors and actors, like Hollywood, as well as our not descended from monkeys? Interestingly, he sees a modern post-perestroika generation in the current phrases of the beauty of love relationships? Does it feel like an emotional explosion? Touches a happy moment?

Let us not bow to American culture. More precisely - North America. Exact - before those episodes that we see in "cash" in Hollywood films. Let us decide for ourselves, as we call those acts by which families are created, new life, the fate of collapse, perform feats occur meanness, exalts people and their quality. As happens in life. Or like a book. Or like in the movie. As in dreams. As in a fairy tale. But it is necessary so that these names reflect our lives. Our actions. Our feelings. Our joy. Our desires and hopes. Our thoughts ...

It is useful at first did indicate that sex, self-concept, self-interaction based on touch, passing into the penetration. But if their own touch and penetration is the goal, the result and no more than that, it's not sex, but pure physiology. That's enough Americans A Russian? And the Slavs? And the eastern peoples, who gave us their doctrine is not so much about sex, but about the beauty of the relationship? But any two-edged sword. Any two-sided medal. And sex is obliged to attend the second party. Not in the sense - the second man. We consider it is version sex together. The second side is the second component of the action - emotion. What gives us the modern idiom? After all, modern Americanisms "make love" and "sex" no feelings and emotions do not provide.

And we, the modern living people - we want that? What did we say we mean when we hear or utter the words "sex"? Or when we say the phrase "make love"? Let's define for themselves what it is - physical activity? Or spiritual intimacy? As much as we do not simplify, but we want to speak like a beautiful, romantic, harmonious. But how? And we must recognize it quickly, otherwise we will get used to not only "do ..." but in fact even have become and "fuck". By the way, and who knows what "fuck"? And what was worse the former serf, the term "perepihnutsya. It turns out that conjugates it badly. But nothing else, our scientific intelligence is not offered. And so to us in everyday life came to American translations.

The American people - great people. But it is other people. On another continent. On the other culture. On the other, no one else like history. Language and turnover of Americans simply can not reflect the fullness of feelings that can burn to shine, between man and woman. Because it is business people. For us, the first important preparation of the trappings. Then the "game" called flirtation, courtship. But if we go back to pirate Americanism, it logically follows that flirting - in itself, and sex - in itself. More precisely, they flirt and is not shown. As shown videostsenah of "making love" or "having sex" begin immediately with the physical contact. Sex without flirting? Sex without flirting is a physiological satisfaction of instincts . Sex without flirting is sending natural needs.

What is flirting?

So, how can we say? How to identify a set of actions, beginning with a kind word, evil eyes, unequivocal gesture? If the initial steps to rapprochement between the two men were assumed to be even earlier - in preparing rooms for meetings, and preparation of their clothes and their appearance? And in the preparation of smells and sounds? And in the preparation of gifts? How to identify all of this preparatory track, the first of its action and until the first erotic touch? And then - the whole complex of preparatory erotic touch. And only then - the very action itself intercourse, the exchange of hormones (if contraception does not provide a condom). And it's not all. Completion of Action, "a point in the story," expressed in that - someone who speaks a compliment or thank someone who has coffee, or does something similar, but affectionate, gentle and pleasant.

Maybe all this together and have sex? Or sex is just physical exercise? Here's to you - how do you like? What impressed? What more you want - contact? Or the whole complex of actions, feelings and emotions? Even if the long preparation, a handsome flirt, passionate intercourse fussy to finish getting dressed and goes out quickly, then all call it sex once and did not want to. Of course, as you like. But it is useful to determine for themselves: who does what, that sex was a full range of action filled courtship, flirtation, emotions, affection, gifts, and a swirl of feelings, confessions? And not just intercourse?

How does all this make or receive? Obtain not only the humility of the odes, and get the whole list at once? Or at least, one by one. By the way, the severity of "women's interest" in the fact that a woman is more sensual, more women need. A man is tougher, he needs less. And he himself is unlikely to guess, what woman wants. Moreover, she herself often does not know. And here comes the moment of truth: if women really more intelligent, according to the women themselves, there is a chance to apply his mind - "set up" man "for themselves, adjust to your desires.

But if someone thinks that the man himself all need to understand ... The man should do only what it would send a woman! A woman that wants something, should tell the man, but so that he thought that he himself had invented. (And there is nothing to be done - a heavy proportion of women ...) Because a man, by nature, not as primitive as his fancy woman. A guy can not only rude to undress. He still might go to the beer booth. Or is there a jewelry store. Cost varies, but the essence of something is one.