Love is always selfish. Finding a man, almost every girl immediately forgets all her friends and you like this becomes absolutely passive. Remember how long ago you did not meet with the girls to walk and gossip? When the last time you went together to the cinema or nightclub? How long have assembled an impromptu salon anonymous dietomanov, where absorbing the pizza and beer, and discussed ways to lose weight and effectiveness of yoga for which you are bound to be written next month. The series "Sex and the City" has taught us: there is nothing stronger and more important than the real female friendship. So now is the time for you to wipe away the tears, get the phone and ring up their faithful friends, who had not seen a hundred years and more! Parting - the right occasion to dust off with a female friendship!

"Well, finally a return of the prodigal daughter!" - Say they immediately will collect an extra hen. The advantages of such a feminine hangouts obvious! First, get a welcome opportunity to talk. Second, you will enter the course with all the latest news and gossip. You have to learn that Lena met once with two guys and is afraid that this would not visit her husband, and that Mariska had bought a coat from Dior, and now does not know where to borrow money on the boots to match, and also that Olesky ... word in the first half-hour communication with you will fall down so much new information that the thoughts of the former go by themselves, or at least recede into the background.

"When I first met after her divorce with her friends - says my friend Tanya - a little crazy is not gone. They are chattering excitedly:

- You missed a sale at Mega.

- And we are here without you for Seliger went!

- Tomorrow morning we go to meet Masha from the hospital! You remember Masha? She has a girl! Three seven hundred weight! Just lovely!

I nearly burst into tears at the insult. While I suffered trying to save the marriage, life was passing. My friend moved away. I missed so much interesting! But the next second I pulled herself together. Really I will continue to spend time on self-pity and loneliness? Yes, though I missed a lot, but now it's time to catch up! I loudly blew her nose into her handkerchief and said:

- Well, what time tomorrow, driving up to the maternity hospital?

My girlfriend immediately zagaldeli happily and rushed to hug me. It turns out that they, too, I did not have all the time. It turns out, divorce helped me realize how much I was deprived of all this time. Now I know that the friendship - it is no less important and enjoyable part of our life than love? "Above all, hen parties usually help recharge the feminist spirit! Nobody says that, after such lovely female cheer you must become militant, skinheads habit, requiring immediate extermination of all men without exception. But to feel a strong, independent girl, who in the company of beautiful girlfriends successful ready to conquer the world - even very good!

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Good news we are happy to tell all one hundred twenty times and still feel fine. And whether or not with the same enthusiasm to tell the sad story of your breakup? At this stage the answer is simple: yes! Must be! Tells the tragic story of his unrequited love for as long as most do not get bored. Psychologists confirm - this is a very effective technique to get rid of negative feelings and emotions.

Repeated presentation of their experiences weakens negative feelings. Remember, as it happens, and with interesting stories. First you tell the listener a very detailed and emotionally, in the faces portraying who said what and how you react to it. The second is a shortened version, telling only the basic details. Third only in general terms. A fourth and laziness that does say something. Event gradually ceases to seem so to you too exciting.

So it is with sad stories of love. You repeat them over and over again until they no longer cause you fits sobs. The first time you literally retell how you fell apart, punctuated only by blowing into a handkerchief and smeared with tears on her cheeks. Second listener you have to provide more sane version of the story. When going to repeat the story for the fifth time, was surprised to notice how little you touch it, do not seem to matter with you all these passions. I think the tenth time you do not want to repeat the painfully boring bike and get off one sentence: "Yes, we broke up, think of it, who does not happen?"

Just do not use this method with the same audience! Do not torture my best friend tenfold chewing the same details. You'd better call in an anonymous phone line trust. Or talk on the souls of his cat. Or to present all the facts on paper. But the most effective, of course, will find ten different listeners. If the sixth-seventh retelling you start to smile, sneer, and find your break all the more funny parts, it means that your work situation perfectly! Once you understand that could really make fun of their feelings, you can congratulate yourself! You're recovering!