Red day calendar
Oh, what concerns and experiences related to us with the most common, but so important to us - menstruation. It is when it is not time, then it's not, so when we are waiting for her. And if that's all. Who got this such terrible pain that no painkiller these couple of days a week, did not survive ... Well, in general what to say, each of us the feelings, sensations and experiences. They say that the first day of menstruation as the first man remembered for a lifetime. Allow myself to accept. But just remember all the feelings associated with the formation of himself as a girl. Lack of or delay in its appearance, the forecasts of experienced women at the birth, etc. Do you remember such details?
That someone is a breeze, and who - some of us, the fair sex, a problem with this common, do not stop life. And treated the girl, then - a woman, and improvement was observed, and as a result, all comes back to his seat. And they suffer all his life miserable, and do not know how to help themselves.
But help is still possible. But not running according to the doctors and fortune tellers, and caught myself. Let's understand first what is menstruation, and what are the problems associated with it.
Menstruation - is associated with childbearing cyclic release of blood from the uterus in women and girls. In pregnancy, menstruation absent. Average length of menstrual cycle - 28 days, but it is an ideal case. Considered normal if the menstrual cycle lasts from 25 to 32 days. With menstruation may be linked following problems: amenorrhea - absence of menstruation, menstrual pain, swelling, pain in the kidneys, pain in the groin, menorrhagia (heavy bleeding), metorragiya (bleeding from the uterus in intermenstrual period.)
Many of us do not even know or do not consider the above manifestations of the disease. But the rule is quite painless and regular menstruation.
Problems with menstruation suggests that a woman is hard to accept their femininity . Beginning in adolescence, it is very common (up to irritation) reacts to her mother, who was her first ideal woman. This does not mean it's not feminine, it just does not like women's role as this role requires compliance with too many rules. She wants to, usually unconsciously, be a man, and it may even be angry at men because they have some features that were not, and will never be hers. She often makes himself to play the role of men, but it arouses in her a feeling of guilt, which she did not realize.
If you have problems with menstruation, your body is telling you that your attitude towards the female principle, which was formed in adolescence, needs revision. This attitude harms and hinders you to be happy. Increased sensitivity and irritability destroy your peace of mind. You can do whatever you want, especially at a time when women increasingly occupy traditionally male roles.
You no longer have to follow generally accepted rules that define the difference between male and female roles. Instead of jealous men, it is better to make sure that they have begun to envy you. This will allow you to achieve harmony of masculine and feminine. Even if you sometimes decide to play the male role, give yourself the right to require the man, but so as not to become dependent on it. Freed from desire to play all the male roles, you are free to place his life for a man who you want.
Perhaps your problems are explained by the influence of some popular belief in your family. Maybe as a teenager you been told that menstruation - is something shameful, sinful, dirty or unnatural. Maybe you are convinced that the problems during menstruation - is this normal? If yes, you should review their convictions and accept the idea that menstruation - it's not painful, it is natural and essential for your body to process.
As a child, almost all the girls are the same as boys - climb trees, fight, play voynushki. But with time everything falls into place. And often, those girls who remain in the role of boys who have problems with their femininity. Try to approach this issue creatively. Try to imagine that you are an actress, and you need to play different women. After all, a woman can be so different as it can compete with nature.
Some psychologists recommend talking a positive attitude. It looks like this: in the evening when you go to sleep, relax, and say to yourself: "I acknowledge myself a full-fledged woman and I think all the processes in my body was normal and natural. I love myself and approve. " Says this setting every evening, and in time to see improvement. It is important to believe in what you say and understand that being a woman - it's wonderful!
I know the case when the month began with the girls during the school day. It was in light pants and a bright red spot was very noticeable. Besides, she saw him not once, but after some time. Classmates did not show special attention to this case, but she was so jammed with my mother's admonitions that "it is" necessary to hide, "it's" a shame that she became depressed and could not go to school. Eventually she started with this complexity. Only one case could leave bad impression for a lifetime. Do not let the occasion so to rule your life. Erase from my memory bad cases, or what have you been, and live easily and happily.
