You do not know how to persuade your colleague to help you with the annual report. Or dream that your friend invited you to the party, he will be satisfied only for VIP-friends, but do not hesitate to ask about it. We suggest you use the manipulation of " quid pro quo . " This is a fairly effective way of manipulation. Its essence is this: you first do me a favor, assist, go to the assignment of your "victim", and after that to ask you a small favor. This method works almost flawlessly. You are using as his assistant human consciences. Do people have a clear mechanism for mutual assistance and mutual support: the majority lives on the principle: "you - I, I - you." Providing a service, we firstly have a man to himself, and secondly, we achieve the appearance of unexpressed feelings of gratitude.

To get from their men, you must make him believe in your unselfishness and sincere desire to help. Here's how it looks in practice. For example, you want to go to a nightclub with his girlfriend without your lover. To prepare for his return a little surprise: "Honey, today is your favorite shrimp dinner and a glass of beer for dessert." If you manage to create the conditions so that he had a great night without you, then he is out of a sense of gratitude will certainly repay you in kind - will agree to let you go alone.

If your friend has accidentally let slip about a grand party, which he arranges in his home only for a few, but not in a hurry to invite you, you should not just give up. Make it a gift, from which he can not refuse: ask him to go to a concert of his favorite band, a ticket which you have accidentally turned out to be, and then you will definitely fall into the number of invitees.

Do not have time to complete financial report on time, and your colleague have long finished their part and is going to spend the weekend with friends. You jealous, and ask for help do not hesitate? Before you ask it to comply with your request, gave him his fragrant tea, and even with his favorite candy bars, and a cup of tea can share their problems. Another option - Present him some useful little thing under the guise of: "I have a lot of good, but you will come in handy." Remember how in the movie "The most charming and attractive": the heroine gives his colleague eraser soaked in kerosene - seemingly small thing, but nice. After such a gift a colleague would not refuse to help you.