We do not like to talk late at night. And to be quite accurate, it can not bear. Firstly, we are tired, and head the uptake is much worse. Accordingly, we can easily puncture. That we do not like. (Even the possibility.) Second, a dream, as well as food intake for men is sacred. Believe me, nothing brings out of himself, as the realization that because of this idiotic conversation is not left to sleep seven hours, and only six hours forty five minutes! Skin feels like leaves precious time, a cut carefully to sleep. And considering that a serious conversation short can not be, by definition, ... Simply strangle an opponent pillow. To sleep in men ratio special. It is better to take away his last shirt than a minute well-deserved rest. Therefore, if you want to achieve a positive result, do not start a serious conversation before bedtime. Better in the morning. Although the morning we also did not gifts. Well, at least a pillow to stifle will not ...

We do not accept your advice at once, even if they are smart. That is, we will do as you said, but after waiting some time and give out your idea for her. Why? Yes, because we are in fact the most intelligent! What's to understand? Admit that you were quicker and smarter, shrewder, more far-sighted ... Well, well, well - smarter. So, admit it - then stepped on his throat brogue. Therefore, we often pretends not to hear you did not understand, do not agree ... And when we assume that you've forgotten this conversation bodrenko plagiarize your idea and go Gogol. That, they say, we are cool! To treat it better with humor. To challenge useless. Unconscious. Only Naham. It is necessary to you? These are the strange men.

Often pretend that we do not hear or do not understand your question. Such temporary deafness and stupidity of attacking us when we hear the question to answer right away can not. Either do not know, or find it difficult in the statement or believe that you know the answer is absolutely unnecessary. Peresprashivaya, we gain time to gather his thoughts. That interesting - a woman least pretend deaf. But you easier - you can easily put their answers to an impasse, starting to bear some sort of nonsense. And we are on their naivete believe it is female logic. (Everyone has their own methods of protection.)

Constantly urge you to remain calm during an argument. First she threw a plate at him, then threw the salt shaker.

-Well, to quarrel "- she was upset.

We do this not because I do not take out a call for raised voices or are saving your nerves and vocal chords. Just to the dispute on the emotions we are much weaker. If the conversation raging passions, we necessarily lose the lead because bad focus in the feelings and do not really know how to express them. To avoid a shameful defeat, we try to translate the conversation into another channel - from an emotional dispute in the intellectual, where we feel like a fish in water. That is elementary forced to play by their rules you and in your field. But in addition, a conversation - it is a way to solve the problem, and not let off steam. And to decide that it is possible, only calling upon the common sense and logic. That is absolutely impossible, when emotions running the show. Here we have a tambourine: "Please calm down. Let's talk normally. " What to bring down and you astray.

Often get to lie. Writing a story, we strive to build a logical chain of events correct. If at least one of them pull out - all the lies will collapse as a house of cards. In addition, we can not force themselves to believe their own lies (which is cool can you).

When we have problems, we disrupted on you

"What happened? You look upset - you say.

-Nothing has happened, all right - he answers.

"But I also see that you are somehow upset. You have some trouble at work?

Listen, I have everything in order .- The tone icy lump, a look at one point.

-Why do not you share with me? Maybe you will feel better?

Yes, you fuck off of me! That you climb with your stupid question? What do you want, do nothing else? Leave me alone - Screech, howling, stamping.

Sound familiar? If not - you are lucky. If so - read on.

Saying: "Men do not cry, men are upset - a little bit is not true. It would be better to say: "Men do not cry, men are angry." When we are upset, hurt, scared, we respond with anger and irritation. This is perhaps the only emotion available to us in this state. We are taught from childhood that "boys are crying and complaining do not have to." By the way, a substantial contribution to such an education and women have made. The only way to vent negative emotions - angry. So we are looking for the slightest reason to blow off steam just this manner. Because no other way we can. So you have to either stay away from us at such moments, or teach a man to show his vulnerability. That is starting to raise its opposite. The choice is yours.