Nonreciprocal love
Nonreciprocal love - a great subject for literature and cinema. For real life - it is one of the worst nightmares of any girl. Nothing so undermines self-esteem, faith in its own irresistible as the man who does not have on you any species. They say that love can not be forced. But is it really? Should I try to turn the iceberg in a flame? Or is it a waste of time? Are indifferent to relations with you man hopeless?
What to do? Permanent nonreciprocal love - it's just coincidence or is it diagnosed? Of course, if almost every one of your loved ones refused to answer thee in return - it's pretty sad. And futility. But do not be discouraged! It is necessary to reverse this sad trend in my life. And for this first attempt to establish the cause!
1.Otsutstvie self-love. This is the most common reason for non-reciprocity! Why you do not like men? Yes, because you do not love herself. Thus, their relationship is only a mirror of your own attitude. The girls do not love themselves can often cause problems with the skin: acne, allergies, diathesis, irritation, etc. Try to raise self-esteem and to feel love and acceptance. Every day to the mirror and say to yourself with pleasant words, compliments. Thank yourself for a job well done, with a delicious cooked patties, for a beautiful hairstyle.
In short, for everything. Do not be shy often say to yourself: "I love you" Do not confuse self-love with narcissism. These are completely different things. Conceited girl does not love anyone but yourself! The girl who truly loves himself and takes himself for what it is, as a rule, also applies to their fellow man. Pulls people to her like a magnet, because she not only knows his own worth, but also cherish those around you.
2.Ty believes that everyone should (!) Love you! You know you're beautiful, smart, sexy! But somehow, around you fawned upon a callous blockhead who are not able to assess your spell, and blind fools, to focus not see how you're special girl. In this case, it brings you your unwavering confidence in what you somebody that's got to. In fact, even if you are Marilyn Monroe, you no do not owe anything.
Take men as they are. And let them experience the feeling that they deem necessary. You'll see, you should stop condemning the stronger sex, it will treat you much better and will show much more interest!
