I'm not going to teach you to talk on the phone, I hope, is an art you have already mastered, and without me. It does not matter whether you say "hello", "Ale" or "listen" is a matter of habit and taste, perhaps you like a long time "hanging" on the phone, and maybe can not stand wasting chatter. However, we all recognize the importance of phone, realize how hard we would have without him. In fact, using the phone, we can quickly and easily connect with a loved one, learn about his plans for the evening and the next weekend, just to hear his voice ... But it is here that, on the road, potholes lie in wait for us and yes potholes: very simply behave foolishly, if there is a phone handy and so easy to reach it and dial the beloved ...

That's why I ventured this conversation - let's get together with you shall understand all of these embarrassing mistake that so often make women and men who make displeased frown. If you do not want to make ourselves miserable, then be prepared always and in all circumstances to control their behavior, this also applies to telephone calls - your trembling with emotion or passion, voice, gentle words and promising sighs could be wrong vosprinyaty man. And you can not even fix things, because the phone does not give the person an opportunity to see buddy. So be careful with the phone revelations, and even ordinary innocent conversations ... But let us all in good time.

Firstly, be clear about one rule firmly and strictly abide by it: never call a man first, if you have nothing to tell him . In other words, you are allowed to call itself only if you have important information for men and you will certainly need it to pass. This is a very important point! If a woman can easily violate this rule, and kept calling the man to "just to hear his voice" or "know how's he doing, then it is difficult to expect from a man serious about this person. It's not necessary to win, take care of it - it is available, it is near, and has only entice her finger, she will run to the call! Naturally, men tend to exaggerate their own importance, and hardly a lover of telephone conversations so accessible, and yet men think this way, whether you like it or not. So it would be nice if you do not flatter their self-esteem and did not call them for nothing.

Although if you are cunning and calculating person, then you can easily use this technique as a means of seduction and seduce men: first, often call him, and when he gets used to your attention, once and for all "forget" his phone number. And consider that the man was hooked. However, it spoke of it, but generally speaking, we are talking about a woman's unhappiness that comes from our own stupidity ... And so what could be worse than what men find you annoying, affordable, and limited special! For women, it is always unpleasant, disagree? And not even because the men something they think about us, unflattering, it's their problem; bad from what we are involuntarily forced men to consider us as ... So, we must do everything to ensure that the language spoken only what should be, not what you want!

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Immediately Decide for yourself: no gentle appeals to men, even (especially!) if it is your lover, should not be. No, go on a dry or harsh tone does not have quite enough neutral-friendly, without the familiarity and syusyukanya. Talk to men precisely, politely show them that you are ready to give them service if they need it, but not burdensome! If you are okay with a sense of humor, you can give your tone of jocular tone, but do not cross the border - men are insecure, they may decide that you are mocking them. By the way, if your interlocutor himself scoffs at you (there are such instances), then do not succumb to provocation and did not react to podnachivaniya, stay calm and not to drop his dignity. If you fall through and scream, your sharpness tightly "stuck" in memory of the men, he would forget the whole conversation, but it will long be remembered by your nasty words and a shrill tone. Why do you need? Keep calm, so there you are talking into the phone!

Frankly, I hope to rough explanation of the relationship over the phone case you do not get it. But just in case, remember: whatever happens, in whatever state you inflated nor stayed, never show it on the phone! Verbal conversation - is one thing, but a phone conversation should not be spoiled by insults. A simple rule, but, unfortunately, women are very rarely remember about him, and the result is a very bad thing: the fear of once again running into an angry retort or tedious nitpicking, man prefers not to call. This applies not only to spouses with experience, but also newly married and loving couples. Both women then sighed heavily and complaining: that's supposedly what heartless men, once again not to call, will be delayed - does not warn him as if everything is equal, everything is indifferent ... But you, ladies, themselves got it! Well do not want men to listen to telephone notation, and how can they blame for it?

True, no less rejection makes them an abundance of syusyukanya, bustling care and tenderness. I remember the case: we were sitting in a hotel room, we gathered seven people, are engaged in clarifying some information in general, the atmosphere is the most that neither is business, though not official. And then the bell rings. A female voice asked one of the men present in the room, he picked it up and gradually become filled with paint embarrassment. Apparently called his wife and, judging from the responses of my colleagues, strongly elicits from him, well if he had eaten for breakfast, what exactly it was fed, whether he slept before dinner, if he is not hot in his shirt, he wears socks she put him with me, and so on.

We all had to pretend that we hear nothing, but the situation was not very pleasant for us, the unwitting witnesses as personal conversations, and for our colleagues, who had to answer questions over his bustling wife. Understandably, of course, that she worried about him, worried he will not spoil his stomach during the trip, and yet such a persistent concern is not able to please a man. When the conversation finally ended, our weary friend apologized to us for this scene. That would not want my call was causing anyone trouble! That's why I want to warn you: do not impose on the men you care. It is better to simply express the hope that with your partner will be all right, that he will succeed (a difficult thing, a new project and so on) and he will cope with all challenges. These are the "stroking" a man must evaluate, make no mistake!

Oh yes, and for God's sake - no need to call beloved man at an unusual hour and silently listen to his voice, sighing and grunting from compunction at the receiver. You see, a rare phone in our time has no built-in Caller ID, and because you put yourself in a very awkward position by their calls. And do not throw up, ran into an answering machine - you can say a few words, right? It's not as scary as it sounds. Civilized people throughout the world long ago used this device, and only our loving ladies still throw up in a fright when he heard a signal mailbox. I sincerely hope that you are not from the timid!