Men often ask questions, the only answer to which can only be a slap in the face. For example: "With whom did you spend the night? Do not tell me what was in the country my mother! "Women are too often singled out and ask questions in response to men who just yawn and shrug, for example:" When you vynesesh garbage? Why do you still do not vacuum? ". Stop! Learn how to formulate the questions correctly!

Recently, one of the most fashionable science was the so-called NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming . It's another thing for the abstruse nonsense, you ask. In fact, NLP - practical and very useful branch of psychology. Well, go into all the details is not mandatory, but use some of the simplest methods is necessary. The fact that any question can be formulated so as to answer to him was the way you expect.

The first method can be called "Less words, more action." Under him, we formulate the question so that instead of answering people did what we needed. In fact, you probably will not again used this trick myself about not knowing. For example, when you ask a man sitting with you in one room: "You can close the window, I was blowing." To such a question no one says: "Yes, I can close the window" or "No, I can not." Usually in response to a man just gets up and does what he was asked, that is, closes the window. So you can get from a man almost anything. For example, I like it slipped off her boyfriend disappears on a merry bachelor, sms: "You can get bored of me properly?". Barely fifteen minutes, he started calling me.

- Well, well have fun? - I asked. - Tomorrow shall we meet?

- No, let ka I'm better now on you'll pick! I'm bored.

Magic? Maybe. Importantly, it works!

Another way to get his - to ask "trick question". For example, ask: "Darling, you're vacuuming now or half an hour?". In this case, a boyfriend there a sense of freedom of choice, some kind of alternative, but in his subconscious had already left message "you vacuum. And you can not doubt that he actually vacuum! Here on such miracles can our unconscious, if properly programmed!

How to correctly express their grievances?

Probably not the girl in the world, in which there would be no claims against the boyfriend. The only question is how to correctly say. Silent as a partisan and suffer just silly, and pointless. Why tolerate rudeness or something like that is unacceptable to you? Why lie to me that you love biathlon and channel "TV Drive", if in fact the only dream that he thought of the program switch to "House 2"?

Relationships require compromise. Say that you are not satisfied, not only possible, but necessary! After all, this will allow him to better know and understand you. After all, you also want to be a man of your dreams you understand? Excellent! This can be achieved. The main thing is to beat all correctly! You must be the embodiment of diplomacy and civility. It is not necessary to rush him with reproaches. Especially if you're up to it for a while stoically endured, and then you what is called a burst: "You could not endure the garbage! Do not let me watch "Comedy Club"! I hate it when you put these horrible jeans. Wash, finally, for a dish, and generally you ruined my life! ". Stop! Charges against the violation must be! For example, in the shell builds up dirty dishes. Come and ask him to wash it:

- Honey, I'm tired. I am upset that you do not want to clean up after themselves, wash, please dish.

At least, it's much better to charges such as: "Do you remember a month ago you had eaten and not washed for a dish ...".

Also, try figuring out relationships, to speak the truth! For example, my girlfriend Anya as it has received from her boyfriend is extremely hurtful for her proposal "a threesome with one of her friends." This upset her in earnest, but she was silent, and sweet smile, said she thinks. A week later she fell to her lover, accusing him of sexual failure. Couple parted.

- Do you really started a scandal only because he was bad in bed? - I was surprised. Usually Anya different tact.

- No, - she said - I just could not forgive him for those words about a threesome. That's what I was actually so brought.

Morality is simple: if Anne called her boyfriend the true cause of their disorder, it may be their only closer together. Or at least they would not split because of a fool.

And the last principle of prosecutorial activities in love. If you do not like something, the easiest way to start a conversation by asking his opinion. For example, when you want to hint that that you are not satisfied in sex, to start ask:

- My dear, tell me, you like everything in our sex life? Maybe you would like something changed? Or do you have any ideas how to diversify?

Having listened carefully to him. You can learn many new and useful things for themselves. Look, if you can make concessions? After that, tell about your needs. A man more willing to go to meet you, if you will see that for this it that you get in return. Quid pro quo. For example, if he refuses to throw his socks habits, rewarded him for this promise (which it is desirable to do), you would not more talk on the phone longer than one hour.