Negative unpleasant, but effective
As in the impact on themselves, and in influencing the other, I like to use a positive. Inspire, encourage, bribe, charm ... even more interesting to create a right affecting the situation, an organization of life, which itself creates the desired results. As for negatives - I do not like him, but it is allowed and use is also quite active. Negativity also works fine when it is simply irreplaceable, just that he often drags, and then from a convenient tool turns into a dangerous monster that lives has its own life and subjugating us to their desires. Anyway, the negative unpleasant, but effective . A sharp knife - a necessary thing in the house. But the children's better to other toys. Thus, safe and useful methods of Negative block.
Positive works better if from time to time to pick out the negative contrast
Positive works better if you occasionally throw up the contrast negative. Wrote maximum life - write and Anti peak, where a bright and detailed razrisuy to which ass you find yourself, if you regularly deal with that garbage, to which you, too, sometimes pulls. I witnessed how beneficial for some young people were trips to such little sightseeing places like the hospital casualty department. Talk with peers in wheelchairs, who are now forever broken spine ... Morgue. Touch blue leg, look at her, even pink ... and a prison. Sit on hard benches, sniff the air, try this prospect for several years ...
Even the most ordinary district hospital, if you look closely, is very instructive institution. There are grandmothers, and where you can enjoy in their eighties, but most of swaying turn creates a loose shapeless beings first female, not including their brains already, it seems, for several decades. Look at them, hear them, neither be discouraged them, saying his horror story: "It's waiting for everyone who will live, how they are."
And the worst thing that's true. It's scary, and this must not forget. Total: Be sure to collect his collection of pedagogically meaningful memories, from which you each time internally pulls. And put them in front of his eyes, when you want to go the right way. To stay on the right track. Competition and challenge: "Poor?" Character is forged in the harsh conditions.
We do not like to lose, we can touch on the weak: so nice, it can be used. A is not weakly reach out to one of pine, although the forces have already been like no, but do not beat me here if this twine cyclist? Teenagers, experiencing itself poorly prepared to jump into the pool from the tower level of the second floor - is theoretically safe, almost scary and wonderful exercise of courage, but let your "not weak" to be straight month to lie down no later than 23.00 and every morning the resort from the stadium after fully executed program loads! Find a person who moves in the same direction of growth and development, and leave him behind, to be his own best guide! Be the best!
