If you want to have relations were always pleasant and positive, be friendly, helpful and courteous. This is the main rule is applicable to all types of relationships, whether family, work (business) or just friendly. Do not forget that no relationship will not last long or be very rough and superficial, though you will not be friendly. Warm loving relationships, and strong family ties - all serious love relationships are based on friendship, understanding and support. Remember: Friendship will not grow without love, or she will be elusive and cunning, betrayal, anger fretting any love. So be especially friendly to people. To place a man to himself, create his warm, friendly atmosphere, most sincere smile, then he will arise reply desire to reward you for your warmth.

Long been noted that the friendly, open girls have greater success with the opposite sex than the unfriendly lady, with a look beeches, even if the first of them - not cute, with irregular features, overweight, and the second - graceful beauty, and therefore more positive and friendly " And in the very notion of beauty people first put the charm, sincerity, and only then - the correct physical proportions. Girls need to work on ourselves to when meeting the young man left a good impression, so he wanted even to see you, to communicate. And if he again came to you at the meeting, which means you fulfilled its task properly.

Proceed further and you'll get first a good friend who will always help in difficult situations. What would be a rare beauty you may possess, your arrogance, stinging words and looks repel all potential suitors. Act like a man on an equal footing, not understates its virtues, do not stress its shortcomings, look no benefit to yourself that person and just do not be indifferent to it. Self-esteem and pride are different, and people very accurately detected or felt. Each of us has ever been in a situation where a smiling man with the mind makes you uncomfortable feelings and sensations, and you do not want more than to communicate with him. This is the case when the person was insincere, did not want his companion good. Prickly, cold gleam in his eyes, insincere smile give such a person, even if in doing so he is telling you sweet words and smiles.

Etiquette says perfect those relationships, when all is said and done you like your interlocutor that identifies itself as in a mirror, is reflected in your eyes, validation, understanding and full compliance with all of his actions. Words of encouragement, a smile or a simple agreement, expressed as a nod will certainly help your partner to overcome the stiffness. With such a man feel very comfortable with, such people are drawn. If a person is shy, especially to take the initiative, and he'll always come back. And in general, communicating with a person who is worried is going through, hesitate, you yourself begin to feel the same way. Try to help your relationship, do not make a man nothing that would not themselves want to get. This principle will help you find not only a friend but also love to create a strong family.

Hang with dignity

Self-confident girl radiates harmony, it is beginning to feel its interlocutors and to behave accordingly. Behave with dignity is important in all circumstances, especially women, and most importantly beauty. In no event should not suffer from complexes, if you are below your new friend on the level of education, social level or other parameters, most importantly, that you yourself know that you're no worse, and otherwise make him understand it. People should understand that someone is better for someone in one, someone - a friend, especially since the woman may be weaker in some way inferior to men.

A girl who behaves with dignity: no accompanies a man, not to curry favor with him, does not seek to seize the last chance, and quietly behaved and knows his own worth, it looks much better than a girl who would impose their own community. Even if you're with him something that is not likely to come together and parted, stay with dignity until the end. Respect yourself and other people's opinions, and then you'll enjoy themselves and to others. The woman, in all adjust to the man, belittling its role, with pleading, pleading look, a guilty smile, will never be able to interest a man. Do not make a farewell scenes of jealousy, scandals - that you will not achieve anything except further alienation. People like to see next to a confident, self-sufficient people who respect themselves first and foremost, as well as others. Crick, clarifying the relationship between man humiliates himself above all that went down to that level, but everyone can make mistakes.

 A person with dignity will find out in any situation, while maintaining respect and calm her and her companion. Self-esteem - it is the golden mean, which allows you to make sure that nobody felt humiliated. This is something that should be followed for all to enjoy talking to different people. To avoid mistakes in order to know authentic, to anyone who should be in a situation to give up, need to know the etiquette, rules of conduct in society between older and younger, between superiors and subordinates, between men and women. However, you can simply follow the principles of common sense, which are as important - do not make a man like you do not want to do to you.

Not eyeing

People are so constructed that when meeting a new person starting to evaluate it, often at an unconscious level. This is quite natural, and it can not be avoided. Just do not forget also that the evaluation will you, so think about how to do so in order not to alienate your new friend. Try to assess your fan as tactfully, without hurting him at the same time. How would you like if you were at the meeting looked at how, under a microscope, or casts an appraising glance from head to toe and back? Think you would feel extremely uncomfortable, and you would have wanted to leave as soon as possible, not bringing a date to the end. Indeed, appraising glance puts the person on the defensive, forcing somehow psychologically defend themselves against such "attacks". If a person can not defend itself, it appears a strong desire to leave immediately.

Just try to carry out its assessment of care, without putting a person in an awkward position. Remember, you first need to determine the human qualities of his companion and then how you approach each other. When you do not like the way people dressed, not like his manners, it can be very tactful remark or hint, do not detract from the dignity. Always remember that the person is not suitable for you in the satellites, can become a good friend. Appraising glance always visible, and many others hurt. As a result, you risk being left in splendid isolation. Communication must occur on an equal footing. Ideally two people should marvel at communicating with each other, ginger, be supported. Such mutual appeal is always nice to these people want to come back again and again.

Be polite to each, considerate and open communication, do not show their limitations, mercantile spirit and bad manners. Remember the first impression of a man is judged. On your appraising look about you say you're callous, soulless materialist. Man feels fine and features a good, friendly look from xenophobic. Be above all else, and you must respond in kind.