Mercantile woman
If you think you are quite mercenary man, try not to show that the quality of your chosen one. This may push him away because he might think about what you use it, pursue mercantile interests. Mercantile interest to anyone not be pleasant: no friends, no relatives, no boss, no slave, nor a life partner (potential or real). It repels and casts a shadow on the sincerity of relations. Often, wealthy people for this reason conceal their condition, and poor - carefully zavualiryvayut own.
To leave no man of his unpleasant experiences, do not show their mercantile interests (unless they certainly have) in a conversation. Let's hope that you do not Mercantile woman and the men waiting for something more than the life of your sponsorship requests. Casually tossed the phrase could be your main companion that deserves attention. Be careful in his statements. Questions about the presence or number of children living space, its accessibility, the number of square feet are hidden issues related benefits. These questions also can recognize your partner that will put a shadow of mistrust on your relationship. For example, the question of whether a child involves spending at him alimony.
If you are still interested in his financial relationship, then find it in another way: first, of course, for clothing, as well as by profession, position, by kinship and other ties. This approach is less traumatic for your buddy and do not cause at the same repulsion. It is desirable to tell about their situation, too, again without specifying anything specific. If a person does not suit you for financial reasons, it also gently without hurting his dignity, Break the them, but be aware that maybe tomorrow you will meet a person with a level of affluence than you, but who does not wish to tie a relationship with you .
Imagine clear that he feels the other person, when his show mercantile interests. Nobody wants to feel like at the auction: do I tell her I will or not, it is an affront to human dignity. Man it would seem that his estimate did not for humanity, but in terms of its material base: cars, apartments. Mercantile spirit is more appropriate at work. In other respects the mercantile spirit kills the living human feelings and desires, relationships become predictable.
Remember that choosing a life partner and friends only mercantile considerations, you deprive yourself of simple, direct human relations, that you will like and that will bring you many interesting and enjoyable moments in life. The man who all his relationships are built from the mercantile considerations, no real friends and real love. All his forces, putting on the hunt for great people and relationships, you are depriving yourself of an interesting life and many pleasant surprises of destiny. Usually, but not biased give the person a lot more profitable than dating, and that relationship does not replace any benefits. Remember the adage "100 friends, better than 100 rubles."
Remember that you are looking for a man who will become your destiny and you will face together the various obstacles of fate and joyful events. Therefore, build a friendly relationship is more important and more useful in life than profitable links. Profitable links will not give you the support, understanding and spiritual instruction, which often are needed in various life upheavals. Think about that in the pursuit of material interest, you can miss out on a much larger and most expensive human value - a good friend or love.
