Life position, which we suggest you "try" to themselves, to avoid various idealizations, and deriving from them "educational" process, called " Life is a game . " This position means that you have a specific purpose and you are making efforts to achieve them, but refers to the process of realizing your goals as a game. What is the goal - is all the same. This may be a personal fortune or a new coat, the conclusion of a major contract or a trip abroad, a scientific discovery or construction of suburban homes, etc. Do you have a goal, and you sought it. You put all possible efforts to achieve it, but she has not yet attained. This is where it goes and checks your life on the availability of idealization of their abilities to achieve the goals or objectives of idealization. And the position players in this situation, you may even very useful.

What can give such a position? It will give you the opportunity not to give excessive importance to the results of your efforts to achieve the goal (ie, not to idealize the purpose and plans to achieve it). It turns out - great! I can not - wrong, but that's no reason for the experience! The game is always a win, but also possible loss. Be prepared for it in advance! Try all your luck perceived as a temporary gains and setbacks - as temporary losses! And the play must ardently desire, with all his might! But - without much experience, if something does not work.

So, if you can not take the coveted post in the service - it means that your opponent this time beat you. But the next time he does not succeed, either you try to replay it in another field, for example you try to take a position higher, but in a different organization. Or you're not going project and you're in debt - which means you are not playing their game and you can either quickly change the rules of the game (to renounce the hidden benefits of idealizations or negative internal programs start to act differently), or to acknowledge your loss and try to win another game (in another project) where life will not have to destroy your system of excess property. And so for any loss. Worry about winning probably is not necessary.

Attitude to failure

Due to this attitude toward life sharply reduce the amount of your negative emotions (in relation to itself, the world, partners, etc.) for which you can get under the spiritual process of "education. Thus, the player can actively and passionately involved in all actions to achieve the goal, but it does not take too much to heart his loss. Lost so lost, next time play. This is a convenient and effective life position, which is shared by many officials and businessmen. Look at the prosperous members of the government - they take up their posts, knowing that long usidyat on them.

And yet with passion "play" in the administration of the country or industry, often with great benefit. Most likely, Life does not care which way you will receive your income - in the form of wages in cash, in the form of bribes or income from employment in some kind of business. Value is only what emotions you'll experience at the same time and that will idealize. If you're happy and thank Life for assistance in execution of your wishes - all will be fine. If conceited or offended - you have to start problems. Players, as you know, can not long indulge in the experience - or will not have time to play.

Such a position " Life is a game "is very common in developed countries. Western businessmen and even take their cases seriously, but always know that they can lose. Internally, they are ready for their eventual defeat, because it is easy to live with full dedication. Bankruptcy - not the end of life, but just another step on the way to the top, giving a new experience and new vision of the situation. Therefore, if your main and only goal - money, then choose any game that will make them faster. And it's very good if you do not break the laws of his country to achieve this goal. But try to forget about work, ministering to people, self-expression, humanism and other light matters, lower at the time of their rank in their system of values. When you receive money, then it can return to the list and choose from it is something less lucrative but more pleasing to your fine mind.

If your goal - self-realization in the works, you just need another game where you can create something new, though likely without large incomes. Combine money and self-actualization - this is a game of higher class is not available to all players. In general, the position of the player adjusts you to win, can constantly improve their skills and find new moves to achieve your goals. You've tried all the options and have not achieved their goals? Ok, you have opened the field to search for new opportunities, start to look for them! If you are positive and determined, then life must open before you new opportunities. And then your goal must be realized.

The first strategic move towards your goals is the choice of such attitudes, which will not earn extra experience and thereby block their efforts. The first position in life, allowing a person does not idealize the results of their efforts and thus avoid unpleasant lessons, called "Life is a game." This position suggests that, in pursuing its objectives of people internally ready to lose and will not be offended by life, if such loss occurs. He'll just try to win the next round (half, step, etc.). This position must hold only in the presence of a specific goal.