Karmic relationships - love from a past life

Karma is the effect of past lives in relation to real life. Akin to the term of the Western tradition, is used to describe similar effects - the fate. Now not all belong to the karma too seriously, but many people are interested. Believe or not believe in all these "astrological things" related to karma, past and future lives - the case of each one of you. But suddenly, the knowledge could be useful? 

"Six months ago, I divorced her husband ... I had pretty strong feelings, but after a while we parted on his initiative. When the psychic wound dragged on, I tried to objectively look at our relationship and she realized that as a wife he does not suit me - Different characters, views on life ... But all this time I periodically covers a strong feeling that we were not supposed to leave just as quickly as it happened with us. What we do not Doda very much to each other. And sometimes visits me a strong sense of that if we suspend our relationship for good, then find something very irreparable ...". 

This is an excerpt from a letter from one turning to me for counseling women who have served as inspiration for writing this article. 

Every astrologer who is familiar with the eastern direction of astrology knows that many meetings with people in everyday life are not accidental, and carry the karmic nature. Some evidence suggests that such karmic meetings over a lifetime may be many. Coming into this world we find ourselves surrounded by people who help us to realize their karmic problem. It is our children, friends, relatives, bosses, colleagues and passers-by . 

But now I would not like to talk about all the karmic meetings, namely, karmic relationship between men and women . Beneath them understand the relationship between partners who knew each other in past lives and the survivors of deep emotions in relation to each other. Sign of karmic relationships concluded that he or she, or perhaps both, are unresolved emotions within themselves, such as jealousy, anger, guilt, fear, dependence or something similar. Unable to find a way out when your emotions, they are attracted to each other in the next incarnation. 

The purpose of the new meeting is to give each other the opportunity to resolve overdue. It does this by recreating the same situation for a certain period of time. Met again, karmic partners are experiencing an urgent need to become closer to each other, and after awhile they begin to repeat their old emotional role. Now the scene is set so as to meet again with the old situation, and possibly deal with it the wiser way. The spiritual purpose of the meeting for the two lovers is to make a different choice than they did in past lives. 

Here is an example. Imagine a woman whose last incarnation was a very jealous husband, a usurper, who was madly in love her, but at the same time tortured her with his jealousy. At some point she decided that it was unbearable to live and left him. Not having gone through a divorce with his beloved wife, husband, after a while get sick and die. Woman feels remorse. She believes that blame. Sorry that did not give him a chance to improve. With this sense of guilt, it goes through the rest of his life. In another life, they meet again. Between them there is an inexplicable attraction. Initially, the man unusually obvorozhitelen, it falls into the center of his attention. He adores her. They are fastened close relations ... 

Since then, it becomes incredibly jealous owner. He always suspects her of infidelity. She is angry and upset that he knowingly accuses her, she also feels an unusual commitment to forgive him and give him another chance. She thinks that he has psychological complexes - the fear of being abandoned, and expects to help him deal with it. It justifies their behavior this way, but in fact it allows you to violate their personal territory. Relationships negatively affect her self-esteem. The most correct choice for women will break the relationship and go their own way without feeling guilty. "Complexes" of her husband (fiance, lover) are not its responsibility. 

The value of new karmic meeting to a woman learned to let go without guilt , but a man must learn to endure emotional distress stoically . The only correct solution here - to break off relations. "Error" committed by a woman in a past life, not that she left her husband, but that she felt responsible for his illness and death. Care wife in this life again leave her husband alone with his feelings and fears that will give him a new opportunity to meet with these emotions, rather than run away from them. Karmic relationship between these two will be repeated as long as the lesson will not be performed correctly. 

I am often asked - how can you identify a karmic relationship, and can it be done? A professional astrologer can determine this by analyzing the synastry partners (horoscope compatibility). In the horoscope compatibility sometimes encountered such a situation of planets that accurately explains the reason for the meeting of two people. I mean, a feature which meets most of the planets under the karmic aspects (where the distance to the zodiac of the planets is 20, 40, 80 or 100 degrees) - is the undisputed measure of karmic connection. Aspects of the ascending and descending nodes, Proserpine, Selena and Lilith to the higher planets, as well as the ties between Saturn and Neptune can also tell you about are whether the relationship between man and woman karmic in nature, and what are the goals and objectives of this karmic meeting. 

Measure of karmic relationships can serve as a definite difference in age between partners. The difference in the age of 5 or 10 years between a man and a woman - it's completely non-random encounter. More than likely, that among these partners, there is a karmic connection that requires working off mutual debts. Karma keeps them near each other. They should go through life in one direction, but one of them should assume the role of guide and the other should be guided. The difference in the age of 15 years - an indicator of very strong karmic attraction. So people find it difficult to disperse, even if they want to do it. But these relations are complicated - they either help each other choose the right path in life, or, conversely, knocked his partner out of the way of truth, thus increasing his karmic debts in life expectancy. 

Measure of karmic relationships are, and some unusual situations. Such situations are not obligatory sign of karmic relationships, but they also need to be taken into account. 

Surprise. Relationships are fastened unexpectedly for both partners or one of them, as well as their friends and relatives. The suddenness that these partners may be quite different in character, temperament, different socio-economic status, have a big age difference. In another embodiment, the partners may know each other years, but the decision to get married in this case is a continuation of an unexpected relationship. For example, for many years contacted only as friends, and suddenly one evening, the situation becomes very intimate bed and then the young couple decides to get married. 

Speed. Relationships formed after a period of kratkog dating lovers (day, week, month). This is a situation where the partners as if condescending insight. Such relationships are often marked effect of hypnosis. They start so that the person is not fully aware of the changes and have included only a year or more starts to see the situation deliberately. Prior to this, they are driven by forces and reactions, which it attributed to the end can not. The question whether these partners are willing to look at each other "awakening" is often left open. 

Moving. After marriage, spouses may move to another city or even abroad. Faraway move anywhere away after the meeting and marriage, break family ties, beginning a new life somewhere far away from the place of birth - is another important sign of karmic connection. 

Complex situation. As the most popular option - a partner-drinker or drug user partner. Maybe some problems with health partner in marriage - living with a man in a wheelchair, mentally ill or older (40 years) the death of a partner. Such relationships can certainly be called "punishment". Apparently, this "punishment" currently satisfied with the man himself, unconsciously picking troubled partner. Most likely due to the hidden feelings of guilt came from the past, but the question "for what reason remains open. Or perhaps a problematic partner is attached to it himself in the genetic memory of a past life. Probably the last incarnation of the role of problem-and a good partner were opposite, but in this incarnation, they change places, and "restore justice". 

The absence of children in marriage. It is an indicator of future closed for a generation after these people. These karmic relations between spouses are closed on itself and serve to reflect on their own personality traits for both partners. To some extent these relationships can be called a short circuit. As a rule, they finally, after years or even almost immediately, are empty and lead to separation. In this regard, the karmic all depends on how much each partner was "correct" in their actions. If the partners are "correctly" (in terms of fate and the cosmos) manifested themselves in these respects, for example, did not quarrel and accuse each other of infertility, and adopted a child from an orphanage, then this pair may appear later and the joint child. If the "right" tried to behave in only one partner, but may not receive support, the award will give him the life of another partner from whom he had children. 

Fatality. relations in the pair marked a certain inevitability, predetermination, and often in a negative sense, in the style of "Tristan und Isolde." These include: the situation with love triangles, the situation "impossible" love for some objective and subjective reasons, the situation of love-hate relationship when it seems that life partners are fighting each other, and yet without each other they are unhappy. They like and love each other and madly in hate. Or simply fate always brings partners together, whether they like it or not. A striking example - the heroes Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger in the famous movie "The Marrying Man." In the karmic relationship of a pair little changed or can change - as if these relationships are borne by the drawn plan. 

These options are the most basic, which describe precisely the karmic relationship. 

Karmic meeting, you can be identified by the fact that the other person instantly seems unusually familiar to you. Quite often there is a mutual attraction, something attractive in the air ", forcing you to be together and know each other. If you have an opportunity, a strong attraction can turn into a love relationship. So often happens. 

How long are the karmic relationship? 

Depends on what kind of connection to include your karmic relationships - for healing or destructive . A distinctive feature of the healing relationship is the fact that encountered the man and woman feel kindred spirits, love and respect each other as they are, without trying to change each other. They take great pleasure to be with each other, but they do not feel anxiety, jealousy or loneliness when your partner is not there. In these respects you have to offer understanding, support and approval of the beloved, without attempting to solve his or her problems, brought from previous lives. Relationships are full of freedom and peace. Of course, sometimes there are misunderstandings, but the emotions caused by the short-lived. Both partners are willing to forgive. Between them is a heart connection. Both partners are emotionally independent. He or she will not fill the gap in his life, but on the contrary - add something new, important, vital. In the healing relationship partners may know each other in one or even several previous incarnations. Two souls can know each other in a past life, which is also encouraged and supported each other. This led to the inextricable link over the next few lives. This couple is not parted, no divorces ever. They will always be together and be happy. A marriage with such karmic partner can be wonderful and amazing trip! 

But it also happens that experienced by your feelings about a new love can be so overflowing that you think you have met your soul mate, native soul. Beware! All can was not the case, as it seems. If you connected the unresolved emotional problems of the past, they will sooner or later resurface on the surface. The spiritual lesson of all souls connected in this way is to let go of each other and become free and independent beings. Mentioned in the above example of a jealous husband and wife, blaming the karmic relationships are almost never long-lasting, stable, loving. Often, the main purpose of the meeting - to release each other from that love. 

If suddenly you find yourself in a relationship characterized by emotions, which cause much suffering and tears, but the break that you can not try to understand that nothing obliges you to remain with that person. Understand that strong emotions often relate to deep suffering, rather than mutual love. The energy of love is not so emotional - it is extremely quiet and serene, joyful and inspiring! It is not oppressive, exhausting and tragic. If your relationship can be traced similar features, it's time to let go, rather than a "work them" again. 

Some women who suffer from alcoholism in marriage or a bad temper men convince themselves that they still need to stay together, because "it's fate and to" pass it along. " They appeal to karma as an argument for the extension of relations, but distort its concept. Karma is individual for each person, their karma is impossible to pass along to someone! Karma in the above-mentioned relationship often requires you to be able to let go of a partner, abandoning the tormented relationship in order to understand what you're solid on their own. 

Sometimes you are so connected with a complex partner, emotionally hurt part inside him or her that you feel that you're the only one who can correct situation and save him or her from the problems. But nothing good happens. You'll only reinforce feelings of powerlessness and victim in another person, while it would be useful to draw a line and stand up for themselves. Your mission - to be a free person. This type of painful relationships can spiritually throw you back, and because it may happen that you will create a heavy karma for the next incarnation. You want it? 

Perhaps you will be given only a few months for the past to resolve the situation that exists between you and the problematic partner. You can serve him or her on the path of life any service, what you feel with ebya obliged to implement, but you do not have to involve yourself in relationships that are detrimental to your spiritual growth. Loving relationships are not meant to pull us down. When we love, we wholeheartedly want to support each other in happiness and in sorrow, but we do not have to bear the whole burden of each other's problems. Total light to you!