There is no limit to suffering and helplessness to a woman who was diagnosed with infertility. Just when the doctor says that you can not have children, many women suddenly feel the need for their birth. Was the case in my practice, when a woman, the wife of a wealthy and self-confident man was diagnosed with infertility the first degree. " This means that there are still chances of recovery. You is not even imagine that this patient felt and how she tried to get pregnant as I was treated, visited a psychologist ... I hope that all she has finally happened successfully.

They say that now there is no medicine for incurable forms of infertility. Frankly: I - not a doctor, especially in the area and was not involved in the study of infertility, but as a psychologist agrees with this statement is 100%. Perhaps among your friends and acquaintances have couples dream of a child, it never reached his dream. Now the problem has become very common. We can sin on the environment, early abortion, incomplete health ... But let's look at this problem from the perspective of psychology.

Known many instances of ordinary people and the lives of celebrities, when the couple tried for years to conceive a baby mother, but all in vain. But as soon as they take a receiver, like a year or two brought forth his own. This suggests that God is really pushing us to save lives. And yet, what are the reasons for this sad diagnosis? Are people who have received a "shot in the forehead," so all my life and to bear the cross of infertility? That's what scientists say psychologists.

Infertility - the inability of the organism to produce offspring, ie, produce or release the gametes (sperm or egg), as well as provide them with a connection for fertilization. Impotence to infertility is not true. So, what's the reason? No matter how paradoxical it is we do not it, but it turns out, for some people, infertility is a necessary experience in this life. Perhaps they want to have a baby, just because it is accepted, or because their parents can not wait to ponyanchit grandchildren. Some women want to have a baby just for the fact that to feel like women - otherwise it is difficult to accept their femininity. For these women, infertility is a necessary experience as they learn to love yourself and feel happy, not having a child. Sometimes a person wants to have a child, but fears related problems, and this fear is overpowering desire.

Infertility, therefore, may be a manifestation of the repressed into the unconscious of fear, and in this case should not abandon the desire to have a baby. Infertility is seen as among those who blames herself for unproductive, does not get positive results in any area of activity. Above I described the woman, the wife of a wealthy man. Perhaps her infertility was due to the fact that she personally was not ready to become a mother. And go for it for the sake of her husband. I will not argue, but it is also an important reason.

What should I do? To find out what it is for you to your infertility - necessary for you to experience in this lifetime or the consequence of an unconscious fear, ask yourself these questions:

1. Why can not I do this a disease? The answer to this question will determine what kind of desires are blocked.

2. What compels me this disease? The beginning of each response to questions from the particle "no", we can know what desires are blocked.

3. If I allowed myself to realize these desires, as would have changed my life? The answer to this question determines the depth of the need of our being blocked by some false beliefs.

For a woman may become a fatal impression which has made it a story about someone else's hard labor. What I tell you about our children's birth mother and girlfriend? About procreation in general? Maybe you're afraid that the baby will push away from you for someone or that the pregnancy will ruin your figure? One must realize that the fear associated with certain words or events from your past, can not exist forever. You must decide either in favor of childbirth, or in favor of fear. So you decide to give yourself that right. This is your life and you can do with it whatever you want. But you must be willing to bear the consequences of their decisions. In addition, I recommend you ask those people who are familiar with you, whether you have grounds to consider themselves unproductive person. Most likely, other people think about you better than yourself.

As with all diseases, is to blame dislike. A dislike for themselves, their neighbors, to the world. Often, in order to get pregnant, women need to raise their self-esteem and love yourself. Love your husband and future baby a little. Must pay tribute to himself. How cool. Ways to raise the level of love, there are many. And you have to choose one that suits your persona.

Still, some authors argue that infertility is caused by fear and resistance to life-process, or the lack of requirements for the acquisition of parental experience. In these cases, they recommend talking a positive attitude. You can do this at any time convenient to you, but better in the morning, reaching and smiling, tell yourself: I believe in life. Doing the right thing at the right time, I'm always where you need it. I love and approve of myself.

Someone will be able to cure his ailment only a change of heart and the principles outlined here. Someone could combine them with medical treatment. This is so surely. Not so important. The result is important. The main thing to prepare yourself, get rid of the extra complexes and fears. In the case of self does not work, you can always refer to a specialist. In order that they exist. Positive attitude, faith in success and ourselves - these are the main keys to victory.