Oh, how wonderful when your boyfriend is so good that all the girls around paying attention to it and envy you! Bad when he meets them in the same ... Svetlana lucky twist the novel with a very attractive young man. He looked like Antonio Banderas in his youth, and to the same glittering charm. Wherever they came, this macho immediately became the center of attention. Girls hovered around him like wasps around a jar of jam. First Light is flattered, but when she noticed that her Casanova continuously releases the other girls jokes, compliments and jokes, then seriously offended.

- I know that he is ladies man. I do not mind that he communicated with others, but we must also measure and know! For example, I can not stand when he lets other compliments. I think that my man should be praised and noticed only my beauty!

This, of course, very sensitive issue. Whether to allow him to communicate with other girls and if so, how to establish a framework acceptable? I had a friend, Lucy, who worked on her husband and his thoughts better than a totalitarian government. Changed its concept was considered absolutely everything: turn after another girl, to see the magazine Playboy, a talk on the phone with a female colleague, fantasize about Sharon Stone and Jeanne Friske. They parted ways after three years of relations, when one Lucey in an odd hour phone call on her cell chief.

- So, I do not forbid, and herself with the guys what is on the phone at nine in the evening talking about? " - Roared its faithful and left, slamming the door.

The moral: Do not rebuke her boyfriend what she sin. If you fantaziruesh about sex with Enrique Iglesias, Forbid him not to dream about Angelina Jolie. If your home call male friends and colleagues, and let him lead such negotiations without the need to "encrypted". Do not be jealous when he invites you to dance your little sister or girlfriend. You dance better than myself with his friend. The relations should be based on trust. When he tells you that this or that girl of his associate "pure friendship, do not be jealous for nothing, because his words can easily verify. If they really just friends, then he will acquaint you with joy, and certainly will not make any secret of their communications. If they are just friends, you can always join their company, and this girl did not hesitate to your invitation to visit. When the society of thy beloved and the other girls you do not feel "a fifth wheel", know you in a relationship everything is fine!

Wow fancy!

Once, at midnight I was awakened by a phone call. It was my friend Nastya. She spoke in a whisper and sobbed loudly into the phone:

- Can you imagine that my Vic I just said? This is what is terrible! I went to him in erotic peignoir, and he instead do love to me, suddenly offers: and let ka we'll try anal sex. Nightmare! I guess I just like it is no longer exciting. Or he does not respect me. Or thinks I'm some sort of a whore. I can not stand it. Well, fancy him! Do you think maybe he's a pervert?

In fact, Nastia is not alone in your problem. So many girls at some point in their lives faced with similar challenges. Often, young people offer us anal, group sex or ask to dance striptease, or insist to remove sex on camera. When you feel ready to experiment, such requests will not grieve and do not become an occasion for experience. What do you do if your man ... ladies man and a pervert?

Try to gently decline. Explain that you love him, but do not want to go against his wishes and principles. Try to find out why he was so attracted to this very fantasy. Maybe he wants to make your sex on camera just because he wants to see how everything is going on? Then a good alternative would be sex in front of a mirror. Importantly, do not call him a pervert and not to deride his imagination. Be grateful for his honesty (even if such revelation plunged you into shock).

The very fact that he did not hesitate to talk to you about such intimate things, testifies to the fact that he trusts you. And this, you must agree, very well. And then: possess information - possess the world. Maybe one day you're all still rack up the courage to achieve his dream. But even if not, still be glad that I could see her lover better. Take the example of him and do not be shy to express their desires. Couples who can come to a compromise in such delicate issues such as sex, are usually the most harmonious and prosperous.