Boredom - the enemy of intimacy. I propose a series of "actions" that you and your partner might try if you want to introduce an element of novelty into your stagnant relationship. These are necessary actions that you repeat often. They are designed to bring variety to the sexual routine, and not to become part of it. If you use them too often, they lose the incentive effects of novelty and turn into the same routine as before, but with the new rules. Not all the proposals you like, although some men are very concerned that their partner shared sexual fantasies. How to increase the pleasure? Try these tips!

1. Take a bath or shower together, especially if it's scented candles, broths The Love of different herbs or essential oils. The Love of different recipes I will give later.

2. Take a sexual act is not in bed, but somewhere else: in a chair, sofa, rug, couch, possibly before the TV, where you put the erotic videos. Do not get mad at your partner, if it is against the erotic video, over time it relaxes, and, perhaps, a natural curiosity can help you find something of interest in erotic movies.

3. Take a sexual act in the dark, if you normally prefer a little light, and vice versa: if earlier erotic caresses you love to enjoy in the dark, but now use a small light. Women love candles, use their diversity and abundance. If your sexual contact occurred in the daytime, try to play with the curtains.

4. Put a mirror to see how much you love each other. Sometimes some of the couples shoot yourself in the video. This is dangerous, because tapes hidden in a house falling into the hands of children. They had a very negative reaction to sexual intimacy parents.

5. Experience the intimacy outside the home. Select the location where you will not interfere where it is not dangerous for you. If you like a place in nature, use it for an intimate rapprochement. If the woman was moved from the entertainment of the hill, from which you admire the beauty, meaning and internally, emotionally, the woman will not interfere with sexual intercourse.

6. Alternate amorous pleasures of eating. Snacks, prepared by hand in love men, soft drinks erotiziruyut and add enjoyment.

7. Make each other a sensual, relaxing massage using aromatic oils. Apply for this skin, fur, velvet, brush for painting, silk fabrics, to experience the full range of sensations at the touch of skin. One of my trainees once told an interesting story: when her husband bought her a mink coat and brought it home, she is so glad that my husband immediately took the opportunity to "piled" on her new mink fur coat. Fear of spoiling the fur and at the same time the ecstasy of the wonderful, gorgeous things added both women and men storm of erotic sensations. Now they are happy to recall the case and use a different, unexpected and enjoyable.

8. The most valuable help your love lessons - give them enough time to be sensible and long. Plan them as you would any other planned activity. Would not compliment a woman and almost certainly will limit your fun sex in a hurry, when you're tired and just keep on your feet. Although sometimes violent, sexual desire is so strong gripping partners, that sex is hurried in any unprepared for this place brings exceptional enthusiasm.

Introduce changes in long-term sexual routine is not easy. First you need to get used to the thought of change. Then make small changes in sexual relationships, for example, from time to time leaving the light, if you normally make love in the dark. When you discuss these changes with your partner, be careful that in any case it did not seem that you are criticizing the monotony of sexual relations to which you are accustomed to. If basically you are happy with your life together, you will all the more necessary to determine the cause of sexual exhaustion, perhaps you miss because your sex has become too predictable. If you have a relationship established routine and your sex partner is very limited, the emergence of a sense of monotony is not surprising. Live today and now, avoid comparisons with past experience and not fantasize about what you would like to have in the future. Do not forget that sex - mutual action, you will receive back the charge of pleasure that you give your partner, because the more she enjoys sex with you, the more she wants to please you.