To answer this question, it is first necessary to understand: what is sex appeal. In English the word "seh-arrea1" means "sex appeal". That is, sex appeal - it's what attracts the opposite sex. That's all - not just appearance but also her gait, gestures, posture, voice, smell and shine in their eyes. However, the other ladies make a fatal mistake, convinced that being sexy - simple. Needed, they say, first of all to achieve certain standards of appearance.

Sex appeal - so if you want a state of mind. And it may very well be that one woman, dressed not trendy and with a figure not very ideal, it will attract crowds of fans, and another in which the slender body, and bright "packaging" and will continue to exist in isolation. Because of the emergence of the "sex appeal" depends largely on what exactly you saw this or that man that stirred it for him ... Of course, appearance plays a significant role: the question of just what looks?

The man had not got much of their "smaller brothers" when talking about the mechanism of choice of sexual partner. Of course, not looking at the man, I can not say it draws us in terms of sex or not. However, a glance, a person evaluates a prospective partner is not his legs or clothes, and picks under the leadership of his own unconscious. And the unconscious requires one thing: that the alleged sexual partners to ensure maximum safety of genetic features of the one who chooses. It is in these circumstances is based the appearance of our conversation, "like - not like it." It is for this reason, some prefer people with blue, someone with brown eyes, someone picks blondes, and some brunettes. Criteria for each person their own. And it is absolutely not related to culture, ideology and fashion.

However, although human and animal, but still social animals. And so it has often (except in the most primitive animals) is not possible and even desire to engage in a sexual relationship with the selected object, as soon as there was desire. In the range from dating to bed, people tend to interact and this interaction also determines the choice. Therefore, today's man, apart from keeping their own genes, is guided by another criterion unconscious choice: whether a given individual qualities required of his future partner? Thus, the "smell the scent of each other in a crowd of a sadist and a masochist, a person seeking to obey the imperious and, loving care and in need of guardianship ... In the process of communicating with something interesting person we appreciate not only his looks but also personality traits, behaviors. And if all this is consistent with our undertows settings "to choose what", you will get "at first sight 'sex drive grow stronger and stronger. And at this time we are completely occupied by the question how long the object has legs. Remember the classic: "And what he found in this ugly?"

How to become sexy? " To you choose, your behavioral response should not spurn. In other words, man chooses the woman who takes his views, attitudes and other mikrosignaly choice positively, not negatively. And one that every gesture of courtship sees derision and mockery, most likely, will not demand a very long time. Because all its reactions, all of its smallest gestures and movements, tone of conversation, facial expressions, her body as if to say: "Oh, come on, who I need ..." And the woman herself may not even suspect what mikrosignaly it sends the men around her.

Why do many of the fair sex is so strange react to signs of attention? Very simple. They initially believe that quite unattractive and never did need them, because they have, you see, does not meet the standard chest, face or figure. But for such qualities as sex appeal, completely indifferent to face shape and size of the garment, it is primarily personality, and fashion, as is known, encourages all to get a haircut with the same brush. In particular, today it seems that in our society, the world is ruled by tall skinny lady. They are the most charming, attractive and sexy. And so it really?

What now looks in fashion?

Some of our plump, to feel beautiful and desirable, have opened an amazing tool. They rest during the summer in Egypt or UAE. There, they are not allowed passage, invite the principal wives all at once harems, promise unprecedented buyout ... Yes, these countries preferred a complete women, they are considered the standard of beauty. But why have so, but we have a completely different way? Apparently, all proceedings against the woman. Fashion on the exterior makes the culture and public opinion. In the above-mentioned countries, the ladies are not democratic, sometimes ignoring them completely, but at the same time, the woman for an Egyptian or Arab - is primarily the mother of his children. Therefore, it should have all the physical indicators, talking about her fertility. And we (and Europe), nobody thinks about how efficient from the point of view of the nature of tall and thin women. Modern European lady with a fashion model's figure, but almost no breasts and thighs often serves as a decoration or office symbol of prosperity of his companion. And it does not seem able to bear, give birth and bring up a child.

Moreover, this mode is struck and for men.

 After all, every man to his own taste, and not all men are attracted to sexually fashionable nowadays a woman's figure. However, poor man, if he takes a significant position in society, for all sorts of presentations and meetings, forced to walk with a high long-legged companion, and even take a dolly for a wife. Although he does not appear any desire at the sight of his companion, and in the heat and cold drops of plump legs and large breasts. But public opinion does not care about his personal tastes: it is said, if you are a modern and wealthy man, the carrier trendy expensive suit ezdi the fashionable woman have an expensive car and fancy dear wife.

And neither man choosing fashionable women, nor women, rushing into the fashionable appearance, can not understand one thing: Fashionable and sexy woman - totally different things!

And a few more rapid tips on: how to be sexy?

Want to look poseksualnee? The desired effect if desired can be achieved in minutes. Handle the matter boldly!

Before the interview.

Select a crowd of handsome young man, and imagine that you just have sex with him. Prilet blood to your lips, face a mysterious smile, his eyes sparkle.

Coming out of the car.

Lower simultaneously both feet on the pavement, keep your knees tightly clenched. Looking ahead, lean on the door handle and slowly lift the seat. Your graceful appearance did not go unnoticed.

For boron counter.

Sexy sexy drink orders. Those considered to be cocktails. Captivates the bartender a smile and a soft voice and let people think you are - an unusual guest.