How to adapt to change
Start a new life is always a bit scary and risky. But what if you are serious changes? For example, moving to another district, the city, if not the country? How to reduce risk to a minimum and make the period of adaptation easier and more enjoyable? Of course, if you moved to the place which has always dreamed of, for example, in your own villa in the Caribbean or desyatikomnatny penthouse apartment in downtown Moscow, not to worry. In this case, we probably have absolutely nothing to advise you and wish you really good luck. What if changes in your life have been compelled to? There are several different situations and ways to adapt to them. So, a few tips as to adapt to change :
1. If you move to a larger city, such as capital, it makes sense how it must work out the base. Where will you live, where to work, which led to school children, etc. For many suburbanites pace, prices, orders and scope of the big city is a revelation. It is sad, but in a large city, in addition to the light, beautiful architecture and elegant shop windows, there is still a lot of negative things. For example, problems with the registration and registration. To avoid them, in advance, consult with a specialist (preferably in his hometown before moving). This may seem like an unnecessary extravagance, but in contrast to the risk of being "thrown" at the money or get the same advice, but for a large sum in the capital - a real savings.
Also, before you move, weigh the pros and cons. You should not "bite" on the huge salary. Indeed, in the big city very different prices and a very different cost of living. Before gleefully rubbing their hands in anticipation of a sweet and prosperous life in the capital, find out how much travel in the subway, renting an apartment and products in stores.
2. If you are, by contrast, moves to a small town or village does, here too there are features of adaptation. Rule number one: start a hurry warm friendly relations. In a small town, where many know each other through the fifth-tenth acquaintances, the more friends you have, the easier your life. The presence of acquaintances can greatly facilitate your life, because through friends is easier to get a job, get to the good doctor, get a discount on repairs, etc.
In order to please the residents of a small town, leave the metropolitan snobbery in the capital. Try to talk to them on equal terms, do not build from a high society cynic and experienced traveler. Show respect to the place where you are going to settle. You may want to "vypendritsya" its metropolitan developments, acquaintances and trophies. Not worth it. This way you only provoke aggression, jealousy and hurt the indigenous population. In the meantime, if you really want to settle down in the province, you should know: the existence of such a There are many pluses. In particular, people in the Russian province where the soul and pretty much do unselfishly, just from a desire to "help a good man." So try to gain local.
