A man and a woman can quite differently perceive the same situation - and everyone will see it differently. One and the same fact, they can be treated with a fundamentally different points of view: one will see it as a positive phenomenon, the other as negative. For advice you can refer to any man; votlichie from her friends, this is not to be afraid of what you refer to the wrong person. Your advisor can be anyone: a brother, father, husband, son, just a close friend. All of them will understand your problem, of course, if it does not apply to choose a new dress or lipstick, though, by the way, even in this case you should listen to the man's opinion.

Think for yourself, if you have some disagreements with spouse or your young person, then who better to sort out the situation, a friend or girlfriend ? Advise how to resolve your problem? Of course, my friend will give you advice based on his life experience to share with you my experiments, which she spent on his wife, will speak about the results. But it is unlikely she will tell you about the negative, side effects, which appeared as a result of her experiments. In addition, you should not think that she will tell you that her husband felt when there was a problem situation. Unlike a friend, your friend will approach the problem from the other side - from a position of your boyfriend, husband. Believe me, the way to solve the problem is much smarter and more efficiently.

Do not think that we offer you completely refuse to communicate with her friends, accusing them of incompetence and stupidity, just in some of the issues they really are ignorant people. But to prove this clearly, consider a few examples. Do you have problems at work, you are trying to post to the fullest, and your boss does not notice your Herculean efforts, or believes that it is self-evident and should not focus on your dedicated work of our attention. You do not know what to do, tired of sitting in the same place for several years, you would like to raise, a raise, yes, finally, that you are appreciated. What should you advise a close friend? There are several options - and they are certainly way out of this situation, but allow it in the root of the problem, change your life is exactly as you would wish? The first advice is most likely to leave work and find the one where you will appreciate. Almost the same percentage will have tips like: "Go to the head, throw him in the face of their claims and demand increase."

All of these tips are fairly easy to implement and can even lead to certain results, but is unlikely to desired. If you drop the head in the face, that the long wait for raising and earned more wages, then it may raise you, and may sign an order for your dismissal, and the increase is unlikely to be a long time. Leave the job - is not the best solution: is there any guarantee that other place you will appreciate more. In addition, you have to start all over again: get used to the new boss, team, constantly prove their competency, etc. And that would suggest your friend? Having listened carefully to you, it can and does say that the problem as such does not exist, do not you the one sitting for years in one place without the movement. But everything is happening precisely because either you are too well established precisely in this position and no one leader does not want you to voluntarily let go, either, in fact, you're not too zealously trying to prove their knowledge and experience in this matter, so you and in no hurry to raise.

Giving this advice, one will not just try to solve your problem by logging into your position, he will look at it through the eyes of your boss. Neither one did not advise you to put the head of a choice: either raise me, or I fire - so the problem will not solve. Anyone will tell you that cornered, the man show aggression begins to struggle, never compromises, and prefers to fire you, even if you are really a valuable employee. If you want to achieve something, you should not put a man facing a hard choice, it is necessary to circumvent: to try to make sure that he thought that all initiative comes from him, and that it is he wants you to raise, not you insist on this.

To do this you must resort to tricks, but try to avoid intrigue - it will only aggravate the situation. Tell your friend the details of your problem - and he always gives good advice to help you resolve the situation. The problem of the polarity of the views of members of the opposite sex excites people since ancient times. A great number of various opinion polls, tests. Statistics consistently show that men and women give answers to the same question the other way around. But to find out why this is happening, and failed. But, nevertheless, the fact remains, and with it can not be ignored. Particularly large differences occur in matters of love.

It is quite legitimate question may arise: to whom we turn with a problem - a friend or a friend? Who can understand better, to give the right advice? It turns out that the roles are separated. Certainly understand better than anyone could only close friend, which is sure to go down in your position, you will regret, give a lot of "recipes" happy family life. But here as a really practical advice, here you have to rely on a friend who will not in your position, and position your vote. Tips from a friend-male you can ask and being already married, do not suffer from complexes, if your family some inconsistencies - help never hurts. If you notice or even know exactly what your spouse is someone on the side, it is best to seek advice from a man than a woman. Of course, one should not expect understanding from him, but thanks to his advice and recommendations you will be able to change the situation for their own benefit. Unlike a friend who you will regret and, of course, give some advice, one will look at the current situation in terms of your husband, that facilitate your understanding of those or other acts of a spouse, but also help sort out his feelings.