Excessive caution is capable of self-fulfilling prophecy
Caution and prudence - it's wonderful! But what if your desire for security goes beyond all reasonable limits and becomes a kind of obsession? Some people like to take risks, others do not. This is quite normal, there's nothing strange about it. Yet, excessive caution can not be simply silly, but even in some way dangerous. That is, you think you're acting like a "wise man" and just play safe, but in fact capable of needless self-fulfilling prophecy . In what situations should also be bolder and more closely?
1. You firmly believe in the military saying "a nuisance that can happen, happens," and therefore always anticipate all possible scenarios. And then wonder, and why you have so often drops the worst, most undesirable option. The fact is that if you think about the possible failures, you would like to attract. So, thinking about different possibilities, try to focus on the favorable outcome. Would be cool if you think in advance what will you do in case of failure, but say to yourself: "I'm sure everything will best for me. I believe in life and I know that ahead of me is just waiting for good. "
2. You overwhelm a variety of fears. In this case, the output is not an endless chase for safety (for example, buying a BB gun or a gas canister), and work with specific fears. If you can not curb their anxiety on their own, to turn to professionals.
3. Your wisdom has developed into an obsessive desire to control everything and everyone. For example, you make my husband call-back to you with work, constantly ringing her baby, wanting to stay abreast of where he was, with whom and what to do. Such obsessive control signifies your distrust of the closest people. You think that anyone can rely on. Try to get rid of this attitude, because it can bring you more problems than successes. As they say, for all is still not follow.
4. You strongly criticize other people for their addiction to risk and "irrationality." You've probably heard the old saying goes: "Do not judge, lest we judge will be." So you should not judge people for what they chose to live risky (or vice versa). It is their personal business. And his criticism of you are unlikely to change their position in life, but your nervous system you can really screw up. So make sure the people's choice, whatever it was. And you all will be well and safely.