You ever thought about the differences between men and women with a huge hit with the opposite sex, from ordinary people? You think appearance? Manner of dress? Previously, I was convinced that people are choosing a man for the following parameters: appearance, clothes, car, availability of capital, fame, etc. I firmly believed it until I saw in my life a few examples that turned my ideas about the quest for perfection.

The first thing I learned from the media, that America was a contest for the most ugly woman. This contest has won a fat, well, quite unattractive-looking woman. But what amazed me! My God, how many husbands she had - four husband that it is still very fond of. That's impossible! How can that be! Well, on the other hand, I see someone walking with and marry whom are my friends. Those who are walking - it zagulnye girls who like parties, they are beautiful and sexy. But they fall one after the other girls who have totally different qualities.

Second example. It's been a long time. One of my very good friend was outwardly similar to that understand. (I met him at the 1 st year at university, when he was quite young.) Now he looks old, bald and crumpled. But what a tremendous success he has with women! Oh-oh-oh, I saw myself as a woman requested a meeting with him, but he did not meet with them, because there was no time. And on such women, I could only dream of! Now I understand the difference between a successful person in communion with the girls from the ordinary man, and will certainly tell you right now.

So, now themselves effective persuasion in dealing with girls:

I. With girls whether killjoy

A successful man is always to pursue their claims to the girls. He always looked to the girl, which communicates. He never will throw in the "opportunity" to socialize, get love or sex. Think that every girl wants to be with you. Each wants to sleep with you and make relationships. And always show her that you do not talk, sleep, meet up with her if she does not meet your high standards! And they should be. You should always be aware that steep, but it is not. Let her know that deviate from their principles for the sake of it will not. Because it's not cool!

II. Be always at ease

Many people, when they want to interest people, begin to adjust to it. For example, my friend Lena said she met a very interesting young man who has a large and wealthy family. And he invited her to Europe for the suburban villa of his parents, surrounded by his friends. She went with him. "I felt like Cinderella in his kingdom" - she recalls. A friend Max told me he met a girl who invited him on a first date at a friend's birthday. And Max has come to this festival and I got into a range of unfamiliar people. While his girlfriend knew all there, and, of course, surrounded by her attention. Question: Who is the prize? Of course, it is! And he was forced not only please others, but to fight for her attention. Why, he wondered, spend their strength and, plus everything to pass the initiative to date. This is - bad! Because you have no control over the situation. For men, it is quite unacceptable. Men always have to lead the women. A steep male always feels at ease!

III. Grant that they were fighting for your attention

When we meet with a girl who very much want and that we really like that more often than we do? Tried to please. Yes! That's right! You're trying to figure out a way to show yourself and not sit in a puddle that tonight or tomorrow, do not watch telly again alone, and have sex with that pussy. You try to make sure that you have paid attention to, and saw some really cool you're macho. And you want to please a girl in order to keep this attention. That's all. But will the contrary: after these maneuvers, you will become not a tough male, but in the slop. You lost. And it is - a foul. This is a big mistake. Now she is - a cool female, and you're ready for it at all. After you fight for her attention, for approval, etc. As a result, do not you Prince for her, and she for you princess! And now she agrees that the maximum of both is to see what you as the breadwinner breadwinner. Therefore, you will continually validate brains.

IV. Throw a challenge

Once, my friend met a girl. He told me that she was not very keen on them. "And I thought - he says - throw her a call. I said: "Even if you strongly want to, you have not turned out to seduce and get me." This phrase has influenced her as a trigger. Do not think she knew what to do. But I watched as she began to flirt with me on a subconscious level. As a result, we have it very good time. I teased her. It is so warmed up that I started to climb with me to fight and scratch me. Hot! A few minutes later we were already in bed! "Another one of the exemplary examples. Tell her: "You can not seduce me up until you bring in the mother's consent in writing."

V. Risuysya not - be vulnerable

Most guys try to please, as soon as the meet actually biting a girl. Pretend that they are perfect. Sometimes it is evident that the girl becomes immediately clear: "So, he wants to please me." And of course, now she does not want to fight for his attention. But do not forget: you have the right to the shortcomings. And understand this correctly. Do not try to pretend that you're perfect, you know that it is not. Be sure of your faults.

VI. Show that you are loved

Love you! You love myself! Show that you are loved! But do not overdo. And you never show that you do not like. Often the guy for fun shows with humor, that he would not like, and refers to this with humor. Do not do so. Even in jest, you thereby shows a girl that you can relate to bad. This is terrible! And this should not be just, never, under any circumstances. And if someone made fun of you, never laugh at it. For example: "You're always such a dork, ha-ha-ha." 'll Laugh, will treat you like a fool. The person sees that you froze, and tells you: "Come on, I was joking, sorry if wronged." Often respond: "Come on, do not worry!" No, it's a crappy answer. You know what he means? You say: "Do not worry, you can continue to drag me in shit!" The correct answer is: "Adopted!" So you accept his apology. And shows that do so no longer follows. Basic qualities, which have the most attractive in a relationship and seducing the people and that should have you for a most attractive:

• pursue their claims to others.

• Be always at ease.

• Do it so that they are fighting for your attention.

• Throw a challenge.

• Do not risuysya - will be vulnerable.

• Indicate that you are loved.