If you raise your children, then the sample of children for you to be your attitude towards your parents. We do not choose our parents. This choice makes us nature, which itself determines in which parents we must be born. Since childhood, children tend location, trust and a sincere love for his parents. And when a child expects from his parents for something, perhaps, the best to yourself and do not receive it, comes disappointment. Some children try to remember how they would never do when they become parents. Unfortunately, not every person is born with talent tutor or a teacher, but everyone can become a parent. Sometimes we do not like much in the home.

But, nevertheless, stereotype behavior in the family owns us stronger than we think. Often we repeat parental mistakes, despite the fact that they themselves have suffered from them once. When in his own, an adult family something goes wrong, we are digging in the memory, we understand that. Yes it is. But what's next? Many break contact with her parents, unable to forgive them. And that - that what is said: "Evil begets evil." And we, it turns out, pass it on - to their children. Interrupt this vicious chain of evil. Do not break off the relationship with my parents! " It says something else: "I'm sorry, and forgive you." Remember that your parents loved you as best they could. If you know how to love better, perhaps, in this and to their credit, your parents?

They had a hard life, our mothers and fathers. And they, too, was once brought up. Thanks for what you have given life and ability to forgive - not the worst human qualities. Let it be even gratitude for what was not, but it could be. And then, the elderly and helpless, they sometimes can not be without your support. And whatever you how many per cent sure that your children will not condemn you? And that being abandoned, you feel it is fair? Of course, with older people is difficult. Especially with some. But the link between generations - is something that shows a man that he is not just a grain of the universe, but part of the clan, the right link, the one for the birth of which lived for several generations. It is very important not to break the link between generations: grandparents - parents - children.

His attitude to his parents, we show an example to their children, modeling the relationship to his age. Because children learn from us all and take over with you our behavior and attitude to people around them. After all, few of the parents told their children that they have wonderful grandparents and they must be respected. Grandparents for the most part are very necessary for children. They are realizing in their grandchildren all the love and attention that you nedodali. This is an apology, help and love. Is that bad? Of course, they are sometimes quite distressed, our parents. And even (and not so much) in terms of what happens to them need care. Sometimes they are importunate, capricious, weave, trying to intervene. This creates many problems. But the problems associated with the fact that you are young, healthy people thrown out of his life who gave it to you - is an educational instrument that can erase all your efforts to educate the child.

Old, all known fairy tale, which have all read many times, about the old father. The whole family sat down to dinner at a large table, and the young parents had no patience to hear how their old father at dinner loud squelching and sheds a lot of soup from the spoon on the tablecloth. Therefore, parents have planted this an old grandfather at a separate table and set before him a trough, because good dishes they were sorry to give him. After a while the boy's father watched his young son on the street in the yard to do a little trough. The father came and asked my son why he needed a trough. And the little boy replied: "Dad, when I grow up, and thou shalt be old, like our grandfather, and you will not have teeth, I'm also going to put in a separate table, and thou shalt eat of the little trough."

Then his father was ashamed to cry. The next day the boy's parents to lay a new tablecloth on the table, put his father on an old place of honor and put before him the best, the new plate. But all this applies to those parents who can not do without your help, or have them developed good relations, that is a normal relationship your family - your parents. This does not mean that you should let someone decide for you whatever way you build your own family. Parents should be fully aware that they can now only advise, not dictate to young people.

Young, of course you need experience of seniors. But this experience is needed to ensure that the young family could learn of something from their parents, and go further in life your own way. Therefore, the best option - it is when young live separately from their parents. Of course, the young family needs a council of senior, assistance and support. It is no secret that often, and in the material. The best option - that the young can live separately but close to the parents. To be able to communicate, come to visit, to help parents raise their grandchildren. Chain of relationships between generations should not be torn. But the new family should belong to itself.