Be lenient to a man
Indulgent woman loves her man so much that can not adjust its behavior. She believes that he understands everything and is always willing to go to meet her. She hopes that her partner only, and dreams, how to make her some great deed. You should not act like a woman. It may happen that, feeling your indulgence, the man will reject all your requirements.
Do any men initially charged jointly with him will have to eliminate its bad habits and cultivate good ones. You should note that the nature of man had brought the role of a physically stronger. Herein lies much controversy. Today he is a knight with a muscular, but without the armor and the right to kill an opponent. Today, he is just waiting condescending nod women, dropped by a handkerchief. And you make a knight to wash dishes, scrub floors, vacuuming carpets, washing diapers. Do not be surprised that in the process of training him as a helper around the house you find in your pet awakening rebellion and resistance of the simplest trek to the store for milk and bread. Think, it's quite easy to do when it's physical strength!
You, dear trainer, have compassion for the poor knights. If you want your man to the ancient spirit of chivalry get along with the economic troubles at home and did not turn in a demonstrative refusal to go to the baker, that are trained tactfully. Take 15 minutes admiring eyes, and hear all the stories that tell you your home "pet", who returned from work or from a business trip. Longer than 15 minutes, he would not stand, and you at this time, still genuinely surprised by his bike, will give him a crowded bin or dusty track. Further, he will do himself no pointers.
Regardless of intelligence and age among men in the blood of immense bragging and posturing. Any businessman prozhuzhzhit you all the ears that had pretty nifty in a commercial transaction, and the Doctor tells you that he is on the verge of great discovery. Support it. Say what you will never doubt his abilities, he has the talent of genius. You risk nothing. You flatter his vanity, and he was happy to succumb to your dog training, which aims - to teach a man to do something in the kitchen. Do not spoil the mood of his handpicked. Try to be his muse, inspiration, otherwise you will make a loser of an inveterate loser.
In earlier times, Knight blew opponents blood and only calmed down. So he sought to have no one infringed on the lady of the heart, for without a dose of her admiration for him, he could not conceive of its existence. The modern is your favorite needs no lesser portion of praise. Depriving him of the joy - and it will poison your life: pure like a man will find fault with everything, and grumbling. So, teach him to domestic affairs, to admire his strength, agility, courage, "huge" money he brings home. Remember that the whole process of training the men have one goal - to establish normal relations. Therefore they allow themselves to amaze and astound.
Must be condescending to a man, if he often surprises you some bought a gift from a sweet pleasant trifles. It will always be a little emotional scene that cheer him as a cool shower. To do this you will need to be condescending, able to fit into the thoughts and feelings of your knight.
Training the biped "pet" to family responsibilities, not venturing conflicts. Do not remember his old sins: "I forgot to buy milk? You're careless! That broke a statuette, it has lost fifty dollars ... "Remember, you yourself are not without sin. And you have something to show for itself in terms of oversight. In the family of a stumbling block often unfulfilled obligations. Maybe let it deals with those household chores that he work out without straining.
Be lenient to a man in a relationship with his relatives. For example, after supper, he settled on the couch and scratched himself behind the ear, just like his brother, and it irritates you. Husband allowed himself to make threatening gestures to you finger and it reminded you mother in law. It would be wrong to accuse him that he learned the habits of their parents and relatives, and even say: "You nechistoploten like your sister. She has a new boyfriend! "Remember that your vote is the dignity for which you will love it. But he learned them in the circle of his relatives.
Words from a category associated with eternity, "always", "never" say the men are in training. Training at this as an attempt to change something in the man is doomed to failure. Smooth, friendly voice says: "Please help me with cleaning, you've got a great work!" In certain situations, without first consulting with your spouse, do not accept any invitations and obligations. For example, if you give consent on behalf of both, that will come to Maria Ivanovna's birthday, while her husband was not on this opportunity, it will cause on his part a backlash. Are trained her man, instilling him a new outlook. Suppose he is of the opinion that the pair - two partners, and you - are not disenfranchised wife.
Your family life will not always cloudless. People are divided among themselves not only joy but also pain. Who knows what trouble and even grief can happen in your family. The purpose of training your pet should consist in the fact that he was the man who will always support you and understand everything correctly. And most importantly, to take care of you. Do not let him forget to start at least little things like daily kiss at parting, and meetings after work. This will give you both a sense of a full-spouses who have not become extinct tremulous feelings. Over time, these kisses will become a symbol of gratitude for years lived together.
Your indulgence to your pet - is primarily an understanding of the nuances of your life together. For example, sometimes you can not talk with him, because you're tired, but he needs to feel important person deciding a very important issue. When communicating, keep in mind that a man should speak a little more than listen, it will be pleasant to him. Accustomed to the fact that you are always with great curiosity to listen, he will stick to the continued opinion that his woman - the most interesting in the world, but it is unusual, not like all of them interesting, fun and boring.
