As a covershenstvovat
If suddenly you do not like your shadow - some sort of round-shouldered, a curve - something to straighten it, you straighten yourself. Naturally. So, if you are not completely happy with your life, then the only way to fix it - fix it yourself. Your life - a reflection of your personality and ... correctly guessed, must start with yourself. If you live well, and want perfect, then you are good and should be - great! Do you mind? Then - in the way!
Mannequins pose gait, swimmers - a paddle, a boxer - a blow. Likewise, each of us can put a thought. Thinking - not just for thinking about what is happening. Thinking - this work, which should provide the product and move your life forward. To learn from this - a productive, working - thinking, make a curious exercise.
Traits of the man, successful in life: to test
Write to the features of a man successful in life: 10 features, features that are presented to you the most important and vibrant. It is not difficult, and your results to examine you really be interested: so take the pen and then, in the book (a variant - on a separate sheet) write the 10 most important in your opinion traits and characteristics of a successful person.
Now we learn what happened. Most likely you have written a very right thing. Check out this easily: display a list of other intelligent person and ask: "Can I say that the features of a successful person?" If intelligent people do not want clever, he simply says: "Yes." Yes, you're intelligent, you write everything correctly. But: mnogoznanie mind does not add. Therefore - the following items to your list. Mark the advantage of those items, which can depend on you personally, but does not come with age or daritsya person by nature. Minus tick is that it depends on you a little: what do you think most innate qualities of man.
For example, the "result-oriented" (rather than scattered walk) you're more likely to turn themselves themselves, nature has nothing to do with it. If your list has entries for "wisdom" or "charisma", is another matter: wisdom usually comes (or comes) just with the age, charisma leader often daritsya from birth: either it is or it is not you.Strictly speaking, charisma develops, too, it just is not fast and require special techniques.
Next. Mark the new pros, the qualities that you are able to develop, with which you are able to work. Cons - qualities that do not know how to develop, to which you have no method development. How to develop a "sense of humor" and "luck", I seriously do not know. If you also have no effective methods, place a minus. But to the "systems thinking" I have a technique, games and exercises to develop this kind of thinking, and I'm ready to mark the item plus.
And the last. Put a plus sign next to items that you inspire, motivate, that cause you want them to turn out. Minus mark list items that you will hardly develop - personality traits to which you are indifferent, or more than that - they make you protest.Discipline - for the successful man is a very correct, very clear and explicit, but not everyone is motivated by the concept.
Interestingly, if the same name by another word such as "well organized", the "organization" is generally much more motivating than "discipline". "I have to train yourself to discipline - not sounds, but" I have to develop self-organization "- pronounced solid. Thus, the items on our list are marked with pluses and minuses.What does this mean? It's simple: the more you have advantages, especially correctly build your way of thinking, the better it works for you. On the other hand, the more you have disadvantages, the greater the disadvantages to your thinking, your (dis) ability and the habit of thinking.
More than 15 cons - very sad, I hope this does not apply to you.
From 10 to 15 - need to work with the mindset.
From 5 to 10 - not bad, but to improve their way of thinking is always useful.
Less than 5 - congratulations, you are my recommendations are not needed
Things right - and those who work
"Less" opposite of a concept means that this concept - not working, for life - is empty. This information, which is not clear what to do, will lie in your head next to other such non-working knowledge, you are at the same time will become more intelligent and increasingly unsuccessful in life. Head - the subject is weak, to boot intellectual garbage in large quantities is not adapted. In life more important than the right things, and those who work. We know a lot of right things, but life is more important is not the right thing, and those who work - for us and for us. A statement of fact - it is empty, it does not work. Something that depends not on us, it is unclear how to develop that we are not encouraging - all dead, empty, broken for us knowledge.
When I then became interested in methods of proper nutrition. I found a smart book smart professor, read it carefully and went, as usual, to pour into boiling meat bystrosup. It's quick and edible, right? Professor wrote all the smart and correct, but my life is not affected in any way. And then I picked up a new book by Vladimir L. Levy's' Conversation in Letters, plunged into his narrative alive and quivering, and then thirty years of meat on your health - do not eat. It is absolutely not saying that it is correct. Sam VL (We had then lived next door) as a skeptical commented on my enthusiasm: "Nick, when I wrote this book, I just could not eat many foods, so I relish this and wrote himself terrifying consequences!"
Levy's book has not been substantiated strict scientific facts, it was more inspired, as a poem, and therefore it has been working its content. Effective. How covershenstvovat yourself? First of all, you need to think correctly, that means thinking about what is necessary, when necessary and right. And that means: train yourself to think concretely. "Work on oneself", "Improve yourself", "Eradication of its shortcomings" - the words are beautiful, but is usually followed by nothing. And anyone who uses such words, often marking time in one place. Anyone who builds a good life, think in terms of that work. Move it and life
"Stand up, Count! You are waiting for great things, "" The morning starts with a charge, "I got up - cleaned the bed," came out of the house - his shoulders "- things simple and concrete. And the use of such ideas, individual orders himself - a big one.Stop shipping a reflection on the fact that you either come to naught. Do not start talking about it, do not go to the people where these conversations occur, do not read what you have to push this thinking. Take myself as something simple and useful.
For example, for you as soon as this: ... what? Think about what to think now it is necessary. If the sight of you have a sheet where you record the case of the coming day, everything gets easier - you arrange a piece of this business. If you have any friends - sensible people, your mind will organize your friends. Next to them, you always start thinking about good things. On the right. Think so, to arrive at results that you will enjoy or will be useful to you. How is it? Suppose you are thinking about their work. You plan out there that change anything? Do you really plan out there that change anything? If yes, then think ahead and be sure. If not, it ends up thinking and loans business.
Cause you have? Next. Reflecting on his work, you thought, and came to the conclusion that you are a specialist low-level and is unlikely in the near future that can either be done about it. Unfortunately. And upset, naturally. Curious: and why do you think about this so? This is to raise your self-confidence, help you make the case that you have to? Think how differently you think about yourself so believe in yourself and teach yourself at least a small thing that your work will prove useful.
