Argufy
There are girls who are themselves looking for a pretext for a dispute to test their strength with a new person. Stress, surprise - it is a very great deal of stress for a man, because he does not expect that will have to find out the truth, to defend its position to argue. Man goes to meet, spend time with a pretty, pretty girl. Disputes glow environment. On the first date is no good. Do not submit themselves and their opinion the only true, admit that your interlocutor may be a different experience and opinion opposing yours. And even if his opinion would be fundamentally wrong, not to defend its position in that at all costs. For ethical reasons, to strangers to keep the conversation gently, with all the source said, agreeing argufy even less relevant.
Try to avoid the eternal questions (eg, justice, good and evil, political issues), as well as those relating to the rights and responsibilities of men and women, or men's essence because of the dispute on these topics can be very difficult to avoid. All these questions can only affect, without delving into them. The first meeting should be held relations harmony that man did not feel defeated, somehow crushed, not versed in this matter. And indeed, woman, to defend its position, foaming at the mouth, it looks ridiculous and unattractive. Remember that women, especially young lady is more important to show a nice, pleasant interlocutor in dialogue than to stand in a difficult "battle" their position.
Avoid harsh assessments, judgments in meetings, do not judge people missing, all those who think otherwise, arrives to speak as little phrases such as: "I do not like," Do not admit "," Never admitting, "I hate" ... This is a very categorical and is often perceived in the "hostility". Do not blame anyone, because you will look no better or smarter than the one who was convicted. Your buddy and you take away from all sorts of disputes. Always remember, mostly from women depend atmosphere of the meeting, the general mood and comfort. Meet nice for both, stick to the diplomatic mood.
Do not make nerdy
Some girls can be very important to show that they are not empty and frivolous coquette, and multilateral development all interested person. With the enthusiastic nature is never boring, always learn something new for yourself, but do not need when meeting to focus only on that. At the beginning of a relationship, when you first meet your knowledge in various fields can help you considerably to tie acquaintance, to establish contact with the man, but do not forget about the other: you need to build not only friendly relations but also personal, and romantic. Relations based on common interests may well remain at this stage, if you continue to talk only about abstract things.
Having conquered and amaze your vote numerous background in different areas, different details, go to the conversation that is closer to both of you. Talk about each other: on family, work, life values of each. In addition, the person will be pleased to know that he as a person interested in talking to. And, in fact, you may owe to communicate, and then discover that you do not match each other or that of your interlocutor complex. Without a friendly relationship, without a care about each other communication is usually only a hail-fellow, or working nature, purely business. Do not forget about the impression you make on the interlocutor. Agree, no one wants to see his girlfriend alive, with roars of an encyclopedia.
Always make sure the response of his interlocutor: wondering whether it all that you say, even if he did not know before? Always catch on the first date mood interlocutor: he may come to you talk on the souls, or that are most important to him, and you be flooded with new and new knowledge. As a result, a meeting is over, and you'll discover that nothing about him you do not know. In the end, you've come to get acquainted with a man, find love, and not a club. Remember that what you're on a date at all times to show his erudition, is a manifestation of selfishness.
People may think that you need not so much to find a friend or love, how to show the audience "what I'm clever." Such an attitude hardly anyone will like - well, like people, when someone smarter than them and it always shows. On the first date the person is hoping to learn more about the person to understand it as suddenly finds that he learns about new developments in medicine, the future of literature and art, about the benefits of a new diet and how to control pests garden. Incorrectly show its advantage in something before others. Find the general topic of conversation and lead the conversation rather than presentation. You need on a first date to show not only your mind and memory, and not just the ability to surprise, but there are other advantages as a person.
Do not think that the more valuable knowledge and expertise, and that without them - nowhere. Men think girls are more likely vseznaystvo disadvantage than advantage, preventing them themselves feel superior. Although if you are knowledgeable in the subject that interests a man, for example, football - on the contrary, these knowledge will show you with the best hand.
