A child or a job?
Asked yourself the question, whom do you like best: the child or the boss? I understand, a lot of options - from gloating "when both" and in the same breath, "of course, baby." Remember, no matter how evolved career against the backdrop of domestic chores, the head will always be sure that the more you like it. It's all on the same topic of selfishness. Be prepared that the head will always be checked for lice you, and God forbid suspect that far from it being more work for you.
He will appoint a meeting for exactly six o'clock and keep all exactly eight. The next day, the five will listen to your report and will ask questions to seven. If you staunchly soak, it will do so always, if you do not soak, head to puschim pressure will still pull you whatever you need for a son or daughter in the garden or do not need. A child or a job? It is a perpetual problem. Millions of children in our country have to rely on family and society, not people, until mom came home from work.
What should I do? In the first place do not allow yourself to feel guilty ... to the Chief! In your mind a child must come first, and only if the harmony of life will be respected. Work is clearly needed, but try to solve the puzzle of preference in favor of the child. Sometimes we lose our self-interest in the huge flow of business affairs. Live as puppets in a theatrical setting of the employer. And our little heirs then great play on our guilt.
To this there was no clear plan your day and discuss it with family and, of course, with the child. You must have a private time and sharing time. So it is in the child. Tell him that your time together - the evening before bedtime, and, for example, at the weekend. Then the kid is not going to waste it on stupid whims. A family will understand when they need to connect to care. Until the child went to kindergarten, it's hard to understand what the job, but, once in the society of children whose mothers work during the day, the baby begins to realize that this system is.
Some children suffer a lot due to separation from the working mom. Especially in two or three years. Doctors are advised to spend more time together. And it is sometimes the only option if you think about your baby. If you are afraid of losing a job or a rewarding career, find a decent nanny or shift some responsibilities to the family. You must have confidence that these people are able to take on themselves the emotional care of the baby.
