They don,t feel the same anymore . They may love the woman , but they get a littl stand off from her , When she gain weight ,or stress from post depression . Now . it takes a lot of patience , understanding and caring about each others need . Now a woman or man have,t to  be able to say what they are capable of and what they are not . The woman can,t just look at her friends husband and what he is doing , or man . In others words don,t follow the joans , or you will be inb a lot of trouble . Don,t put a lot of debt on yourself ,thats a lot of issues . If you can,t afford a lot of children at that time , just don,t do it for the spear of the moment . Plan ahead . Take one step at a time .Now lets not forget , Some people get into marriage and lose interest and start to cheat and run around . Some people are not ready for one partner . They are like a kid in a candy store , that want all the women , or men . They have cheating spirits , and they get bored with one Partner . It,s time to move on when you see that . You really don,t have a chance .it,s time to heal and grow from your experinces . You will meet the right person in your life . That person wasn,t meant for you in the first place . Please contact me- Dawn -u-Destiny for further advice , and a reading . To see what,s in your future .  Blessings